Kid Confidence: Help Your Child Make Friends, Build Resilience, and Develop Real Self-Esteem

"A wise and realistic program for instilling genuine self-esteem in children."
—Kirkus Reviews, starred review

Help your child cultivate real, lasting confidence! In Kid Confidence, a licensed clinical psychologist and parenting expert offers practical, evidence-based parenting strategies to help kids foster satisfying relationships, develop competence, and make choices that fit who they are and want to become.

As parents, it’s heartbreaking to hear children say negative things about themselves. But as children grow older and begin thinking about the world in more complex ways, they also become more self-critical. Alarmingly, studies show that self-esteem, for many children, takes a sharp drop starting around age eight, and this decline continues into the early teen years. So, how can you turn the tide on this upsetting trend and help your child build genuine self-esteem?

With this guide, you’ll learn that self-esteem isn’t about telling kids they're “special.” It’s about helping them embrace the freedom that comes with a quiet ego—a way of being in the world that isn't preoccupied with self-judgment, and instead embraces a compassionate view of oneself and others that allows for both present awareness and personal growth. When kids are less focused on evaluating and comparing themselves with others, they are freer to empathize with others, embrace learning, and connect with the values that are bigger than themselves.

You’ll also discover how your child’s fundamental needs for connection, competence, and choice are essential for real self-esteem. Connection involves building meaningful and satisfying relationships that create a sense of belonging. Competence means building tangible skills. And choice is about being able to make decisions, figure out what matters, and choose to act in ways that are consistent with personal values. When children are able to fulfill these three basic needs, the question of “Am I good enough?” is less likely to come up.

If your child is suffering from low self-esteem, you need a nuanced parenting approach. Let this book guide you as you help your child create unshakeable confidence and lasting well-being.

• Kid Confidence - A Parent’s Guide: How to Build Resilience and Develop Self-Esteem in Your Child
• Believing in Me: A Child's Guide to Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem
• Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to Making and Keeping Friends
• Being Me: A Kid's Guide to Boosting Confidence and Self-esteem
• The Magic Is Inside You: Powerful & Positive Thinking For Confident Kids
• Speak Up and Get Along!: Learn the Mighty Might, Thought Chop, and More Tools to Make Friends, Stop Teasing, and Feel Good About Yourself
• Social Skills Activities for Kids: 50 Fun Exercises for Making Friends, Talking and Listening, and Understanding Social Rules
• How To Get Unstuck From The Negative Muck: A Kid's Guide To Getting Rid Of Negative Thinking
• Find Your Happy!: A Kid's Self Love Book (Empower Kids Series)
• Social Rules for Kids-The Top 100 Social Rules Kids Need to Succeed