Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair

A resource on marital infedlity for all involved, even onlookers

Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.

Along the way Carder also answers questions like:

• Why did this happen?
• We didn’t actually sleep together, so is it still an affair?
• Can I trust my spouse again?
• Should I reveal a secret affair?
• What if my spouse doesn’t want me back?
• What do we tell the kids?

This refreshed and updated edition is an excellent resource for pastors, leaders, and lay people.

Pair this with the Torn Asunder Workbook to for extra guidance in applying the book's advice to your marriage. 

• Torn Asunder Workbook: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair
• How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful
• Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity
• Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration
• Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed
• Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
• Healing from Infidelity: The Divorce Busting® Guide to Rebuilding Your Marriage After an Affair
• A Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual Intimacy
• After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful, 2nd Edition
• Anatomy of an Affair: How Affairs, Attractions, and Addictions Develop, and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them