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SMART Recovery Family & Friends Handbook: For people affected by the addictive behavior of a loved one. Kindle Edition

4.5 4.5 out of 5 stars 152 ratings

Two powerful approaches are combined in this Handbook to help individuals who are affected by the addictive behavior of someone they care about: SMART Recovery tools for dealing in a healthy way with emotionally challenging situations, and the principles of the evidence-based Community Reinforcement and Family Training (CRAFT) approach. Studies have shown CRAFT to be significantly more effective than either Al-Anon or Johnson interventions for getting addicted individuals into treatment.


Written in simple, straightforward language, this Handbook includes tools, exercises, and practical strategies. Topics include: Change and Motivation, Positive Communication, Healthy Boundaries, Safety and Support, Coping with Lapses, Disabling the Enabling, Trust and Forgiveness – and much more. It can be used on its own or in conjunction with attendance at SMART Family & Friends online or community meetings.


A Family & Friends meeting participant states: “I came to SMART to get help dealing with my partner's addiction. What I got are tools that help me deal more effectively with almost every aspect of MY life.”

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B00Y1NNMD4
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ SMART Recovery (May 20, 2015)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ May 20, 2015
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 9.1 MB
  • Simultaneous device usage ‏ : ‎ Unlimited
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 206 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.5 4.5 out of 5 stars 152 ratings

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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 23, 2023
    I admit I was thinking this was just another gimmicky alternative to AA that made promises for easy success. I was wrong, the smart recovery for friends and family clearly showed me how I am unknowingly contributing to the loved one's addiction and what I can do to change myself for the better. I would recommend this book to anyone not getting benefits from Al-Anon or counseling.
    9 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on May 15, 2017
    This book has been a great guide to help me in dealing with my son who has a drug addiction. I wish I would've found this a couple of years ago when we first started seeing signs. I have been able to use this as a guide to help me move away from my enabling ways and even though we are stilll dealing with my son I feel like we are in a much better situation. I ordered Smart Recovery for him but he has not read it yet.
    7 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 17, 2015
    This book followed up my husband's admission to a rehab facility. It was informative.
    3 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 19, 2017
    This is a handbook and self-help manual for people who are struggling to help a family member or friend that has a substance use problem. The focus is on self-care, setting appropriate boundaries, and moving the loved one toward treatment. It is well-written and I consider it the best starting point for family members who are frustrated with their loved one's behavior. Provides real guidance for people who want to get out of the cycle of avoiding the problem, nagging, and arguing.
    10 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 13, 2017
    It doesn't feel all that different than the materials AA and Al-Anon put out, but without all the "higher power" jive thrown in, this is a much less hostile resource for the non-religious people dealing with addiction among their friends and families. I just wish this organization had more group meetings where I live.
    20 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 5, 2019
    SMART is a great alternative to AA and Al-anon. It offers actionable, religion-free advice. This book seemed like common sense to me, and at times it came off condescending. If your “LO” is an abusive addict, don’t bother with this book. If your children aren’t safe in the care of the addict and your childcare options are limited, also skip this book. No ones going to take guitar lessons as self care while worrying if their “LO” is driving around drunk or high with their kids.
    The book has lots of great advice, it just definitely won’t apply to everyone at every stage of life.
    16 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 3, 2016
    This book validated so many of my feelings and I don't feel as isolated. I've never been a fan of "admitting I'm powerless" so Al-Anon is not for me.I've been happier since I read this book and realized there were things I could do to try and help, but the actual addiction isn't MY responsibility. I look forward to reading Getting Your Loved One Sober next.
    18 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 25, 2016
    This book has some excellent information on how to work with family members with addictions. Finally a book that actually helps
    8 people found this helpful
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  • P. Howden
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great resource for struggling people!
    Reviewed in Australia on August 1, 2018
    This book is filled with all sorts of practical tips to help you cope with an addict. You can pick & choose which ones you'll use. I highly recommend this book!

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