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MODE ONE: Let The Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking Kindle Edition

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Do women generally categorize you as a “nice guy??”

Do they really now . . .

Okay, let me ask you something.

Is that “nice guy” tag helping to improve your social life, love life and/or sex life??

99.9% chance, I doubt it.

Many women SAY they want a “nice guy,” but realistically … don't believe the hype.

Women want a man who stimulates them ...

Intellectually . . .

Emotionally . . .

Sexually.

The #1 non-physical characteristic that enhances your sex appeal with a woman is a 'fearless' sense of self-confidence & self-assurance as well as straightforward honesty.

This is exactly what the principles of Mode One Behavior provide you with.

When you're afraid of being criticized by women, disliked by women, rejected by women, and/or indefinitely ignored by women ... guess what?? You will experience all of those miserable responses from women. Fear is essentially a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you 'fear' something, that means, subconsciously, you don't want it to happen, but you fully EXPECT it to happen.

What many men don’t consciously realize is, many women will pretend to have one set of desires, interests, and intentions, when in reality, they may have a totally different set of desires, interests, and intentions.

Let’s say you were in the company of a woman who “pretended” to only be interested in a serious, long-term, monogamous relationship, but in reality, she really wanted to engage in casual sex. How would you know the difference? If you were in the company of a woman who “pretended” to be sexually conservative and/or prudish, but in reality, was really, really erotically uninhibited and kinky, how would you know the difference? If you were in the company of a woman who wanted nothing more than to manipulate you, waste your time, and get you to spend money ‘wining & dining’ them, but they were “pretending” to have a genuine interest in you, how would you know the difference?

MODE ONE explains how you will almost immediately be able to distinguish the difference between genuine, non-manipulative women, and the more phony, manipulative, duplicitous type women.

Rejection by women is not your #1 enemy.

Subjective criticisms and/or opinionated insults are not your #1 enemy.

Wasting TIME and MONEY pursuing women who are not genuinely interested in you is your true #1 enemy.

What are you waiting for?? The paperback version and E-Book version of my book, Mode One: Let The Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking can be purchased RIGHT NOW. (And if you’re a woman reading this … many of those who have already read the E-Book version have been women! Women can exhibit Mode One Behavior to their benefit as well.)

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Mode One: Let The Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking by Alan Roger Currie examines The "Four Modes Of Verbal Communication" used by men in their interactions with single women.

If you've often been perceived as a "frustrated 'nice guy'" then
Mode One is the book for you. You will discover how to quickly distinguish those women who have a genuine interest in you from those women who are looking to do nothing more than soak up flattering attention from you, or worse, use you for your money and manipulate you.

Also, you learn how to recognize when a woman is 'pretending' to be an "innocent, wholesome 'good girl'," but in reality is a more erotically uninhibited woman who has no problem indulging in a few episodes of casual, non-monogamous sex. Chapter Six in the book covers the concept of the "Wholesome Pretender" and the "Erotic Hypocrite."

Currie, the author, has been interviewed across the country by a number of radio stations and newspapers, and is quickly becoming one of the country's foremost authorities on dating, attraction, seduction, and interpersonal communication.

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As a single man ... if you found yourself in the company of an attractive woman, and you had only 5-10 minutes to let her know you're interested in her, and also find out if she's interested in you ... how would you go about doing so? MODE ONE answers this question.

If a woman says she's only interested in long-term, monogamous relationships, but deep-down, she's also interested in short-term, kinky, casual sex ... how could you find out what she REALLY has on her mind in your first conversation? MODE ONE answers this question.

If a woman gives you the impression that shes really interested in you, but in reality, shes just looking for egotistical flattery and a few free lunches and free dinners … how could you find out what her intentions REALLY are in your very first conversation with her? MODE ONE answers this question.

Mode One: Let The Women Know What Youre REALLY Thinking will inspire you, enlighten you, educate you, and entertain you. Dont bypass this important, soon-to-be-bestseller. Buy it today.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B004WPOHDU
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Mode One Multimedia, Inc. (February 10, 2006)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ February 10, 2006
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 227 KB
  • Simultaneous device usage ‏ : ‎ Unlimited
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 172 pages
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Generally considered one of the pioneers of Manosphere 1.0 (1998 - 2004) beginning with May 1999 when he published his first eBook version of "Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking," Alan Roger Currie has been nicknamed "The Godfather of Direct Verbal Game Advice & Wisdom" and also "The King of Verbal Seduction & Kinky Erotic Dirty Talk with Women" by his female fans and male clients & supporters. Currie was the first African-American Dating Coach in the world, and has authored 5 audiobooks, with 2 of those audiobooks recently included in a list of the "Top 15 Most Influential Audiobooks for Single Men" on BuzzFeed.com ('Mode One' and 'No FREE Attention'). Currie is married and has a 2-year old son named Cayden. Currie has been interviewed on national television and nationally syndicated broadcast radio, and he has been mentioned in national newspapers & magazines.

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Customers find the book helpful and insightful. They describe it as a straightforward and concise read with clear, unambiguous writing. The material is interesting and eye-opening, with an honest approach to communication. Readers appreciate the author's direct and unapologetic style. Overall, they find the book easy to use and effective in its communication methods.

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Customers find the book helpful for personal growth and building confidence. They say it helps them be more honest with women and let them know what they want. The book teaches them to speak their mind and take better control of their lives.

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Great novelty book, some good thoughts
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Great novelty book, some good thoughts
Heard about this book from Alan Roger Currie's youtube channel. Thought I pick it up and see what it was about. I found some of the chapters to be decent and shared some good thoughts. Mainly this book is a novelty, I say that because one can't expect to provide verse to situations, which one claims to never been in. So there's no wisdom in this book, expect the entertainment you may find from the endless prose.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 6, 2021
    I was fortunate enough to learn of Mode One by hearing it briefly mentioned as recommended reading by Rollo Tomassi. That’s high praise. After reading this book, I’m genuinely surprised I don’t hear it mentioned more often in the Manosphere of YouTube channels and blogs. It’s an excellent book. I feel every young man should have this knowledge. This is not a silly book about PUA tricks, but way of building confidence and not getting abused by women. I see the lesson of Mode One similar to Jordon Peterson’s lesson of not being low on the Dominance hierarchy. Grow a pair of balls, communicate exactly what you want, don’t be weak and don’t let other people’s criticism shake your confidence.

    As an older man with multiple attempts - and failures - under my belt, I immediately recognized I’ve been in modes 2 & 3 most of my life and that the problem lies with me, not with the women. Its the way I was raised & the disingenuous story we’re all told growing up about being a gentleman and that we must fawn over women and put them on a pedestal to win their affection. This book dispels all that garbage.

    Much like the subject of the book, Mode One is written in a simple, straightforward manner and is a relatively quick and easy read. You can tell Alan Currie lives what he preaches by his writing style. He gets right to the point and every chapter, every paragraph and every sentence is clear and concise. No ambiguity. Very refreshing in contrast to Rollo Tomassi or Jordon Peterson’s writing style.

    No examples of how these conversations should go are provided in the book. The implicit message is: overcome your fear, immediately approach women you’re attracted to, express your genuine intentions, and don’t let her reaction shake your confidence. Over time, you’ll learn what works and what doesn’t. The point is to take action and do it.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 24, 2016
    This book is a must have for all men and women at any age.

    The principles and value systems in this book are nothing but honesty and letting your partner or stranger of interest know what your interests or desires are. We are in a society where Men and Women play too many mind games on another to get an edge over the other and have a certain amount of power in those games. There are so many games being played, its common practice and a "norm". The point where telling a woman what you REALLY want, seems "bad guy" type and even "rude".

    This is sad.

    This should not be how relationships should be handled. Why cant people say yes or no to a persons reach for connection? This book absolutely breaks down why. It all comes down to being honest with yourself and others. Reading this book multiple times will help you adopt this mindset and truly see the light when it comes to dating.

    Overall, not only do I recommend this book to change your life, I also recommend these books that align the same ideas and mindsets you NEED to adapt in order to survive in the dating world that we live in. Trust me, your paradigms WILL be shifted.

    -No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover = A breakdown of the generation of so called "Nice Guys" and why Nice Guys are not successful in many areas of life.

    -What Women Want in a Man by Bruce Bryans = A short and sweet book about what triggers a woman to be feminine around men. Absolutely informative and when reading it, you will have many "ohhh" moments.

    -The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer = A book on spirituality that teaches you to be present (very important to be present when approaching women), not caring what others think of you, how to be aware of your thoughts, and overall inner peace. THIS IS GOLD!

    -Upfront and Straightforward by Alan Roger Currie = The sequel to Mode One. This time, he breaks down the motives and beliefs behind Manipulative women and men. More so on the women side because in today's society, women play great mind games (Wholesome Pretenders and Erotic Hypocrites) and why you should be the man and not be afraid of these women. I recommend this last because you must TRULY READ MODE ONE MULTIPLE TIMES TO GRASP THE COMPLETE BASIS AND IDEOLOGIES OF IT!!
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  • Libra997
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great read
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on March 25, 2024
    It's a great read, but being direct comes with being experienced. If you don't have as much confidence in the area, it's a little harder to execute Mode One. That comes with time though, so I would still recommend reading this book.
  • Client d'Amazon
    5.0 out of 5 stars One of the best Book for interaction between mâle and female
    Reviewed in France on November 9, 2021
    The four Mode type

    The four type of women You gonna find

    the honesty about what you really communicate with women and what you really want from women .
    This IS the most honnest Book you gonna find ever !
  • Chasz
    5.0 out of 5 stars Goed boek
    Reviewed in Germany on April 5, 2019
    Goed boek, heel praktisch en waardevol
  • JRude
    5.0 out of 5 stars Be bold, be confident be mode one.
    Reviewed in Australia on June 18, 2021
    Alan R Currie directly directs you on how to be direct with your intentions with women; the end result, no bitterness, no fear of rejection and no manipulation directed towards you from women, aka mode 1. The book is straight to the point with gold nuggets that when absorbed and implemented will dramatically change your interactions with women, if you suffer from being your honest self towards women, a must read.
  • Ivano
    5.0 out of 5 stars Simply Great
    Reviewed in Italy on March 3, 2015
    Amazing book, with only four states the author describe any kind of man behaviour against women .

    Any man should read this book, it's open my eyes!

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