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"What the...": A Conversation about Living Paperback – April 28, 2019
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After a long break from writing, Darryl returns with an unsparingly honest account of his own journey, from the confusion of teenage spirituality, through years of intense practice and contact with teachers—and working to earn a living in many countries. Darryl tells of his experiences of being an international ‘teacher’: how he reacted to the projections and requests for a formula for living, his own realisations and his current gently dynamic approach.
Darryl’s journey through searching, realisations, disillusionments and what came after has led him to a new, fresh and clear perspective. He invites us to explore our own experience, pointing to what most people overlook or ignore, asking some essential questions and considering some surprising answers.
Spontaneously drawn to meditation at age fourteen, Darryl spent the next 17 years exploring awareness and concentration within Eastern and Western traditions. He then spent 9 years with mindfulness teacher Ruth Denison and another 6 years as a meditation monk in the Thai Forest Tradition, under the guidance of Ajahn Sumedho.
Darryl now works with a simple yet profound approach: a very gentle but constant consideration of our common experience.
Darryl is the author of three other books, Dismantling the Fantasy, Essence Revisited and Buddhessence.
- Print length104 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateApril 28, 2019
- Dimensions5 x 0.26 x 8 inches
- ISBN-101999353544
- ISBN-13978-1999353544
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- Publisher : New Sarum Press (April 28, 2019)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 104 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1999353544
- ISBN-13 : 978-1999353544
- Item Weight : 4.3 ounces
- Dimensions : 5 x 0.26 x 8 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #2,394,432 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #14,259 in Meditation (Books)
- #52,174 in Personal Transformation Self-Help
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- Reviewed in the United States on September 25, 2019A new book from Darryl Bailey? Yay! This book is poignant, human, loving, and a true gift to humanity. Relative to the population of the world, few will read it. And fewer still will accept it. I sincerely hope you are one of those! Thank you, Darryl - you are very kind and generous.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 8, 2021Yes how simple and easy it is when when your mysterieus life is just happening, effortless and special arranged for you, always 100% correct and non interrupted, ..no thinling needed...what more do you want ??????
ENJOY IT AS IT IS !
- Reviewed in the United States on July 13, 2021Darryl's straightforward and easy approach turns mind twisting concepts into a clear and obvious happening that has always been there for all of us to experience. Enjoy the ride.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 25, 2020Short, concise, easy to read, this is the type of book I'd recommend to people just starting to look into non-duality and for those who have been down the rabbit hole.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 28, 2020After you have read this book you will understand there is no way to describe it.. It is simply unexplainable
- Reviewed in the United States on July 6, 2019Another awesome book by Darryl that clarifies non-duality ideology and points to the flow of beingness and actuality rather than fixated conceptual story-making.... Highly recommended!
- Reviewed in the United States on August 15, 2019I have read countless books on nonduality and in retrospect have taken in a lot of convoluted and confusing material. The mind will want to make this more “spiritual” or “pleasing” and it will certainly want to make this more complicated. A rule of thumb that works is if it requires belief then “throw it overboard.”
Nisargadatta, Alan Watts and the rest are wonderful and entertaining reads, but the presentation is often overly complicated. I view those more like poetry to be enjoyed as opposed to a guide to nonduality. This book is all that is needed and simply points to the “unknowing” that can simply (and gently) be verified in any moment. If this proves challenging, then I suggest one set up a time to talk with Darryl via his website. I have found that to be a very helpful supplement...Big Love and many thanks Darryl!
- Reviewed in the United States on December 25, 2019Completely relate to Darryl's perspective. Have read all of his books and listened to all of this podcasts on his website.
Highly recommended.
5.0 out of 5 starsCompletely relate to Darryl's perspective. Have read all of his books and listened to all of this podcasts on his website.If one is confused, Read this Book.
Reviewed in the United States on December 25, 2019
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- EzReviewed in Australia on July 10, 2020
1.0 out of 5 stars Repetitive and confusing
Couldn’t get through it - oh no is that a thought and did I make it happen? Sorry I downloaded
- LeoReviewed in Canada on November 29, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Buy it!
Another hit by Darryl. The icing on the cake. The finale. Sums up his previous writing perspectives.
- Jenny SReviewed in the United Kingdom on July 2, 2019
5.0 out of 5 stars A heart-warming sharing along with wisdom.
For those readers seeking for peace and contentment, Darryl's previous books never gave us a practice to follow in order to achieve this, but in a very clear and jargon-free way he always pointed us back to our own lives, and our own experience, along with a gentle nudge to perhaps see these from a different perspective.
In this new book he shares with us his own long and varied path of investigation which many of us vintage seekers may find not only illuminating and leaving us with fellow feeling, but with the realization that our efforts may not have been in vain. In the last few chapters he leaves us with 5 important points to explore. These encapsulate his main teachings both from his books and excellent podcasts. If we investigate these points as he suggests, and ponder their relevance to our daily lives, then what more do we need?
One person found this helpfulReport - George DiacogiannisReviewed in Germany on November 25, 2021
1.0 out of 5 stars Book cover is sticky
The book arrived on time. However, the adhesive and cardboard of the package is firmly stuck to the frond cover of the book and it cannot be removed.
Thank you
Dr George Diacogiannis
- bengooReviewed in the United Kingdom on October 20, 2019
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant.
I think DB is great, so really enjoyed this.