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God Where Is My Boaz: A Woman's Guide to Understanding What's Hindering Her from Receiving the Love and Man She Deserves Paperback – November 4, 2013
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- Print length132 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateNovember 4, 2013
- Dimensions5 x 0.5 x 8 inches
- ISBN-101493684868
- ISBN-13978-1493684861
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- Publisher : Amazon Digital Services; 2015th edition (November 4, 2013)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 132 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1493684868
- ISBN-13 : 978-1493684861
- Item Weight : 5.6 ounces
- Dimensions : 5 x 0.5 x 8 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,358,084 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #38 in Christian Dating & Relationships (Books)
- #3,785 in Christian Family & Relationships
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About the author

Stephan Labossiere a.k.a Stephan Speaks is a man on a mission, and that mission is to make relationships happier and more fulfilling.
As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. From understanding the opposite sex, to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight helps countless individuals achieve an authentically amazing life. Stephan empowers millions to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the life and love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.
Dedicated to helping, and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward, yet compassionate delivery style, attracts a versatile clientele including; notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth!
Seen, heard and chronicled in national and international media outlets including; the Tom Joyner Morning Show, The Examiner, ABC, and Huffington Post Live, to name a few. Stephan is highly sought-after because he is able to dispel the myths of relationship breakdowns and obstacles–platonic, romantic, and otherwise—with fervor and finesse. To coin a phrase by an individual who attended one of his speaking engagements, “he’s definitely the relationship guy, all relationships all the time.”
With an international following of singles and couples alike, the name Stephan Labossiere is synonymous with breaking down relationship barriers, pushing past common facades, and exposing the truth. It is this understanding of REAL relationships that he brings to everyone he encounters.
Website: http://www.StephanSpeaks.com
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Customers find the book well-written and thought-provoking, with direct scripture references that keep God in focus throughout. They appreciate how it helps readers re-evaluate themselves and provides practical advice with spiritual support, while also being truthful and relatable. The book's style receives positive feedback, with one customer noting how the author incorporates dialogue with women. Customers have mixed opinions about the book's length, describing it as both short and sweet.
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Customers find the book well written and to the point.
"...Though the book is an easy read, I kept finding myself stopping to digest the concept and to open my mind and heart to change; I actually had to..." Read more
"I thoroughly enjoyed this book...." Read more
"I like the book. It has a good message overall...." Read more
"...Navigating the world of dating you need this great read to balance yourself...." Read more
Customers find the book enlightening and thought-provoking, providing practical tips for re-evaluating oneself.
"...I found this book to be enlightened, compassionate, sincere and insightful for women that is Single and wishing to one day becoming a wife to a man..." Read more
"Small but pack with great information from beginning to end" Read more
"...He touched on some issues which really resonate with me as a single woman of God who is abstinent...." Read more
"...It’s such a good biblical real life book and the points in the book are worth highlighting" Read more
Customers appreciate the book's biblical message, noting its direct referencing of scripture and keeping God in focus throughout.
"...I found this book to be enlightened, compassionate, sincere and insightful for women that is Single and wishing to one day becoming a wife to a man..." Read more
"...Sigh! Well God Bless Stephan for a well-written book...! I will definitely recommend it to my single friends." Read more
"...It’s such a good biblical real life book and the points in the book are worth highlighting" Read more
"Excellent read! Couldn't put it down! Points are spot on and faith filled!..." Read more
Customers appreciate the book's authenticity, noting that it encourages readers to be honest and speaks to real relationship situations.
"...I found this book to be enlightened, compassionate, sincere and insightful for women that is Single and wishing to one day becoming a wife to a man..." Read more
"...The author speaks truth in a loving and kind way. MUST READ!!!" Read more
"...He's very straightforward and realistic but he also encourages a mind reset and self evaluation...." Read more
"...He always has an fair, accurate and honest viewpoint concerning relationships. This is not your average relationship book...." Read more
Customers find the book's story quality positive, describing it as well told and very relatable, with one customer noting how the author incorporates real-life situations.
"...not a Christian or religious in any way but I still found it to be interesting and enlightening. I will be sharing it with my Christian friends." Read more
"...I was thoroughly pleased with my purchase! The author takes real life situations - that we face daily- and elaborates on them through the scripture...." Read more
"this book was definitely eye opening and compelling. It confirmed a lot of things I've been contemplating lately...." Read more
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Customers appreciate the author's writing style, with one customer noting how the book talks directly to women, and another mentioning how the author makes great points.
"...Secondly, this book talks to women, not at women. It's not a book about how to get a man and what you've been doing is wrong...." Read more
"...I love that this book was created and written with Christian principles and in that spirit you feel like you aren't being judged...." Read more
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"...Quick, easy read. Well written and look forward to ,ore from the author. I recommend all singles to read this book...." Read more
Customers have mixed opinions about the book's length, with some finding it short and sweet, while others wish it was longer.
"I really love this book. It was short (only about 100 pages) and the content was really good. I actually couldn't put this book down!..." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on September 13, 2013I have had brief personal chats with Stephan and I love his style of expressing himself and willingness to help. His continual display of empathy is very uplifting. So, when I see a book by him I must jump right on it.
I found this book to be enlightened, compassionate, sincere and insightful for women that is Single and wishing to one day becoming a wife to a man of noble character. Though the book is an easy read, I kept finding myself stopping to digest the concept and to open my mind and heart to change; I actually had to vision what was written. I like seeing scriptures used in writing his book.
Many things were a strong confirmation of things I am presently doing or have done, also an eye opening to things I must do!
The story of Ruth and Boaz is well known to me with all its detail, he did not tell the story differently than I knew of. What was different is how he applied the story to today's living. He addresses dealing with the pain of the past and heals yourself and loving yourself. I was enticed and delighted because I was one of the Women he spoke up - Waiting for my Mr. Right. Thou I thought I was being active in my desire; I still had more to do. I had to get out of my comfort zone and make myself available was a confirmation of what I just start doing. Also as what I have found uncomfortable in dealing with in realizing how God's path for me maybe not be what I envision or whom. It was real talk about mating and picking the right man for me. I did have to say Amen and laugh many times because he was eliminating many ideas or excuses. Yes, he gave you another way of looking at things or things to consider.
Instead of waiting to be a wife, he has me looking at things as thou I am a wife NOW. This has been strange; since I am single and not dating but I get his point (this will be an ongoing process). I really love the section about having a personal relationship with God (not religious). Seeking God in everything we do.
I love that he how he laid the book out:
The Story of Ruth & Boaz
You Must Forgive & Heal, Then You Can Love
Your Way Isn't God's Way
You Expect God to Deliver a Man to Your Doorstep
You're Too Occupied with the Wrong Man
You're too Focused on What You Want
God's Already Sent Your Boaz, You're Not Embracing Him
God Wants You to Focus more on him
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I like how he seems to know what questions will be asked. He has a questions and answers sections after each section. I thought to myself, he does not have my one question listed but yes he did! Yes he spoke on a wide range of things facing Single women. It felt like a brother having a loving heart to heart conversation with his sister about being single, dating and getting married.
Thanks I truly enjoy reading this book and found myself rereading it regularly. I had and am making changes in my life. I am a work in progress and the best is yet to come! I feel more empowered than before! Again thanks!
- Reviewed in the United States on April 5, 2025Small but pack with great information from beginning to end
- Reviewed in the United States on August 9, 2016I thoroughly enjoyed this book. I have followed Stephan on social media for a couple of years but not had the pleasure of getting his books until now. I purchased the audible version but will also be reading it and replaying the audio again. He touched on some issues which really resonate with me as a single woman of God who is abstinent. To be honest, I often say I am in waiting but seriously by putting myself in a waiting process--I may have unknowingly limited myself from meeting potential Godly men for courtship.
Also, my shyness with men can get in the way of developing a steady association let alone a friendship. I was raised old fashioned and it makes me feel strange to even greet a man I do not know...because I don't want him thinking I am thirsty (its based off my past experiences). I'm an all or nothing type. My assumption was because I was not willing to have sex before marriage that it was a major barrier to me stabilizing relationships with men I dated and found very attractive with 'good resumes' as Stephan put it. Now, I am reassessing myself. I haven't dated in about two years and do not want my 'prime' to pass by without considering the possibilities. The book could have touched more on developing yourself as a single woman but I think there are SO many books already out focused on that. It is imperative to hear a man's perspective on relationships and especially as they relate to our spirituality and well-being. Stephan is trying to connect to women who strongly desire marriage and feel they have did the right thing (in their hearts anyway) so why no man or God or no man at all? Lol, this book was a God send because it helped me realize I am blessed to be single and to NOT idolize marriage. I don't even care about a wedding anymore, the marriage is crucial! The woman of God should have already prayed concerning if marriage was something she truly desired on her own or if it was a societal pressure. At this point, I would be willing to accept if God has called me to singlehood but God did not call me to singleness. He called me to serve Him and whoever I marry should be doing the same. I had a recurring dream about a counterfeit man coming into my life--he seemed like a perfect catch but he ended up not being the man he presented himself as. God is allowing me this time to get my life together and get my emotions in check. This book also leads me to believe I may have already met the man but I'm not sure if I am ready to accept it...which opens up another issue. Sigh! Well God Bless Stephan for a well-written book...! I will definitely recommend it to my single friends.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 1, 2015I like the book. It has a good message overall. However, what I wish books like these would emphasize on the great opportunities that come with being single and how to cope with the possibility of being single for a lifetime. I may sound like a pessimistic, but I'm tired of focusing wholeheartedly for something that may not be God will for my life. I just want to genuinely enjoy my life without worrying about my future marital status. I hope to have a family on my own. However, this pass year I asked myself how I would I cope with life if I found myself still single ten years down the road despite all my best efforts. I've been single for long time and know others in my same position.It hurt to realize that there a possibility I will never get married. I don't believe in running away from things. So I am looking for books that not prepare you for new husband but also allow you to accept the present. I would like to hear from people who wanted to get married but found themselves single for most of their adult life. I want to hear how they coped with the disappointment of not getting married.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 16, 2024Get a notebook, buckle down with your Bible, and start reading. Navigating the world of dating you need this great read to balance yourself. It’s such a good biblical real life book and the points in the book are worth highlighting
Get a notebook, buckle down with your Bible, and start reading. Navigating the world of dating you need this great read to balance yourself. It’s such a good biblical real life book and the points in the book are worth highlighting
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- Reviewed in the United States on January 30, 2024Excellent read! Couldn't put it down! Points are spot on and faith filled! Concepts apply to everyone's life and all sorts of relationships including friendships in my opinion. The author speaks truth in a loving and kind way. MUST READ!!!
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- AvyReviewed in Italy on May 5, 2021
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Marie LappeReviewed in France on January 26, 2023
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- Kristin EReviewed in Canada on January 20, 2017
5.0 out of 5 stars Stephen is a great writer, states a lot of facts in this ...
Stephen is a great writer, states a lot of facts in this book that we as women should not just already know but also be willing to admit to ourselves.
- Sue MartinReviewed in Australia on August 29, 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars Practical and informative
I have read a few books about relationships but the presentation and guidance in this book comes with compassion and understanding. I will definitely be telling my friends. It’s a must read for all who seek the right person in their life.
- Amazon CustomerReviewed in India on November 19, 2017
5.0 out of 5 stars ... on being single but so far this is the best book i have come across
Have been reading too many books on being single but so far this is the best book i have come across. The message is simple and already know but it is reaffirmed in a very sensible way and make us look into ourselves deep and connect with who we are and with god. Thank you Stephan for great insight.