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A KeyHolder's Handbook: A Woman's Guide To Male Chastity Paperback – October 29, 2013

by Georgia Ivey Green (Author)
4.2 out of 5 stars 435 ratings
A complete guide to male chastity. If you are new to male chastity or have been practicing it for years, this book will guide you to a happier sex life. Everything you ever wanted to know about how to sexually tease and torment your partner. How to talk “dirty” to him. What to say, when and how to say it, even if you are shy or embarrassed. Keeping him aroused when he is away. It's all here.Has your partner been pushing you to lock his manhood up in a chastity device? Are you afraid you won't live up to his expectations? Are you too shy, embarrassed, or uncomfortable talking “dirty” to him in bed (or any other time)? Being a KeyHolder should not be terrifying for any woman. Armed with the information in this handbook, you can become an expert at playing the chastity game. Once you know how to play, he won't stand chance. This guide will make it easy for any woman to become a KeyHolder for her partner, or any other man, for that matter.
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  1. Print length
    184 pages
  2. Language
    English
  3. Publication date
    October 29, 2013
  4. Dimensions
    5.25 x 0.46 x 8 inches
  5. ISBN-10
    1493595377
  6. ISBN-13
    978-1493595372
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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (October 29, 2013)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 184 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1493595377
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1493595372
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 8 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.25 x 0.46 x 8 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.2 out of 5 stars 435 ratings

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Georgia Ivey Green

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Georgia Ivey Green (Mistress Ivey), has lived as a female dominant since 2006. Before that she was a submissive to her current husband (and number one fan) where she learned what it means to be a dominant. She has been helping others to understand what a female led relationship (FLR) can be and how to make their relationships better. She has tried to educate people, and to dispel the stereo types that are normally associated with female led relationships that the Internet has, for so long, projected. She wants people to understand that a female can be in charge of a successful relationship without having to “dress” the part. That is why she started writing her blog “Becoming A Mistress” back in October 2010. Now she is passing her knowledge on to you, the reader, in hopes that you, too, can improve your life and your relationship.

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Customers find the book informative and well-researched, with one review noting its detailed content. Moreover, the book is easy to read and understand, making it a great beginner's guide.

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Customers find the book informative and amazingly insightful, with one customer noting it provides a great explanation of why things work.

"...Ms. Ivey has a vey classy way of presenting topics in an honest, accurate, and even comical way! What a great book!" Read more

"This book is a beginners guide to male chastity. It is a good read for the serious novice women that's been asked to be a Key Holder...." Read more

"...She really knows men and what their desires are...." Read more

"The information in this book is pretty solid, but it's not for everybody. At times it can be repetitive...." Read more

39 customers mention "Readability"29 positive10 negative

Customers find the book easy to read and understand, making it a great beginner's guide.

"...It is a good read for the serious novice women that's been asked to be a Key Holder...." Read more

"...job of building flexibility into the lifestyle and really makes it easy to follow and explains the "why" behind everything...." Read more

"...There were several very helpful tips: specific guidance on things to say and physically tease or manipulate his chastity...." Read more

"...It is not a super in-depth guide. I would suggest one or two of the Internet forums for more depth...." Read more

This book will drastically change the way a women views male chastity.
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This book will drastically change the way a women views male chastity.
This is a great book to read as a couple, especially if the lady is still shy or embarrassed about the idea of chastity and talking dirty.
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  • Princess
    5.0 out of 5 stars Spot on with insights!
    Reviewed in the United States on August 20, 2024
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    Ms. Ivey was in my head. She is well researched and is pinpoint accurate with the male and female Psyche! Ms. Ivey has a vey classy way of presenting topics in an honest, accurate, and even comical way! What a great book!
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  • Friday Girl
    4.0 out of 5 stars For the Serious Novice Keyholder
    Reviewed in the United States on July 8, 2015
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    This book is a beginners guide to male chastity. It is a good read for the serious novice women that's been asked to be a Key Holder. It highlights all aspects of Tease and Denial, Orgasm Denial, Discipline, Humiliation, Cuckolding etc... which we are not into.
    After reading the book, we seem to be more of a Vanilla couple. We are more interested in the Tease and Pleasure aspect of the game which the book has a small "basic" paragraph on.

    So, we've decided that we're not ready to exchange "That Loving Feeling" for orgasm denial and being locked up for longer periods of time just yet. But, I will say...when he's locked up and I cant have him...I crave him even more. As for him, well...lets just say he is having a "Hard" time dealing with the Teasing (and Tormenting) while our Pleasure has evolved to another level.
    12 people found this helpful
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  • James G
    5.0 out of 5 stars I read through the book and immediately felt like she was reading my mind
    Reviewed in the United States on December 21, 2014
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    I knew nothing at all about male chastity or tease and denial before buying this book besides some vids that I had seen. I read through the book and immediately felt like she was reading my mind. She really knows men and what their desires are. I shared this book with my wife and she was immediately intrigued by it and we've started down this journey.

    The book is short and easy to read. She does a great job of building flexibility into the lifestyle and really makes it easy to follow and explains the "why" behind everything. She also emphasises that there's no pressure on the woman to do anything at all. The no pressure approach really put my wife at ease and ensured her comfort in all of this.

    Overall it's a great introduction into the life and I cannot recommend it enough.
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  • Donald Williams
    5.0 out of 5 stars Best book
    Reviewed in the United States on December 15, 2024
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    My wife loves this book.
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  • Beardo
    3.0 out of 5 stars Good if you're familiar with BDSM topics.
    Reviewed in the United States on July 28, 2022
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    The information in this book is pretty solid, but it's not for everybody. At times it can be repetitive. So you might find yourself skipping over things you've read already.

    This book would be best for people already into kinky topics. Less for beginners or the vanilla.

    The author seems to have a predisposition for guy on guy sexual acts which not anything to do with key holding our chastity play. Don't get that confused. This is very unusual. It is because of this included topic I will not be passing this book off to my wife. She would read it and think chastity is about forced blow jobs. And anal play. So wrong! Not at all what I want.

    This book is not for beginners. It is for the initiated, people who are into kinky things, but not intended for the hardcore crowd.
    4 people found this helpful
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  • Nancy G.
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great book brought the spark back
    Reviewed in the United States on December 24, 2014
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    This book has a lot of information so pick what you both like. I have been married for over 40 year's. Looking for something to bring the spark in the bedroom back. This set fire to the marriage! My wife was not to sure about this and I had never heard of this. But after doing this for 3 weeks we are sold. My wife is old school, she did the house chores I was the man of the house. Now I am jumping up and doing them. I did not make the bed right and I was disappointed when she TOLD me what I needed to fix. She is controlling my orgasm. I have had one. Use to be 5 times a week. I am amazed how I want to please her. She told me yesterday she loves the new us. Told her I wish we had known about this 40 years ago. She was sold when she asked about getting a puppy. I told her I had no say so, it was up to her. It sunk in then for her that I was serious about this. Gotta run got to vacuum before I go to work!
    19 people found this helpful
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  • RJ
    4.0 out of 5 stars A gentle introduction to male chastity
    Reviewed in the United States on July 1, 2018
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    I would consider this a gentle, introduction to male chastity. If you are a male, trying to figure out how to introduce male chastity to your female partner, this book can be of help. It is not a super in-depth guide. I would suggest one or two of the Internet forums for more depth.

    Books on this topic are often porn in disguise. Dropping one of those on your vanilla partner won't help at all. Ms. Green has written a guide that is basic and should not frighten your future keyholder.

    To go into greater depth, is in my opinion, impossible for male chastity. There is just too much variability in the partners backgrounds and experience to be able to write an all-in-one conclusive guide. This will get you started.

    Her descriptions of the chastity experience for both partners is spot on. I had to experience it first hand to accept what she claims. If you have a solid relationship, following her suggestions can lead to better communication between partners, an exploration of new boundaries, and a lot of fun. All of which, lead to a stronger relationship.
    17 people found this helpful
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  • cheryl
    1.0 out of 5 stars It would be good for a beginner
    Reviewed in the United States on December 9, 2014
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    it had many spelling and grammar errors. It would be good for a beginner. Most with any type of experience would be doing what she is teaching.
    3 people found this helpful
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  • fab
    5.0 out of 5 stars A book full of great ideas
    Reviewed in France on December 16, 2018
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    I'm not the keyholder, but the one in chastity. I give a lot of ideas to my girlfriend thanks to this book. Well written and effective
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  • Matt F
    5.0 out of 5 stars What a good read
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 26, 2024
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    Comprehensive in all ways without being titillating. Some great ideas to try.
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  • Angeline Gallant
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great
    Reviewed in Canada on April 24, 2024
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    This book is excellent if you are curious about being a key holder. It is very detailed but easy to read.
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  • JS
    5.0 out of 5 stars Very good written and useful
    Reviewed in Germany on December 1, 2019
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    This book is an excellent advice to the topic, good explanation and description of the possibilities of chastity. Hints for playing with tease and denial.
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  • Mitchell J Criton
    4.0 out of 5 stars Great resource to get your wife involved!
    Reviewed in Canada on September 29, 2017
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    I have been into the idea of chastity for years and years now. Recently, I finally got up the courage to share the idea with my wife who is very vanilla. She was open to learning more about it, so I went searching for resources and came across this book. I figured it would be best if I could give her something to read on her own time, so that I wasn't smothering her with information on the topic every single day. We ended up reading the book together (separate devices) and over the course of about a month. Looking back now, I think it was very beneficial that my wife was able to learn about chastity on her own schedule. As we read each chapter, I would ask her if she had any questions, and would let her know if there was any subject matter I disagreed with. It was important that we took our time, even though it was really hard for me because I'm like any guy and wanted my wife to buy into this immediately.

    I'm happy to say that within a few weeks of finishing the book, she agreed to let me buy a device. We took things slow and I tested the device for fit and comfort over the course of a few days. Then we took a break, and about a month later, out of the blue, she proclaimed that she wanted me locked up! I've now been locked for nearly 3 weeks, and she tells me it might be for 3 months!

    In regards to the material in the book, it's written from a female perspective which is great if you want your wife to be able to understand her role in it all. It covers most, if not all the aspects of chastity and female dominant relationships, but there were a few topics (such as humiliation and cuckolding that I personally am not into). Overall, it's a really good book for a potential keyholder to read.
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