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We've all been there: stuck in a cycle of what-ifs, plagued by indecision, paralyzed by the fear of getting it wrong. Nobody wants to live a life of constant overthinking, but it doesn't feel like something we can
choose to stop doing. It feels like something we're wired to do, something we just can't escape. But is it?

Anne Bogel's answer is
no. Not only can you overcome negative thought patterns that are repetitive, unhealthy, and unhelpful, you can replace them with positive thought patterns that will bring more peace, joy, and love into your life. In Don't Overthink It, you'll find actionable strategies that can make an immediate and lasting difference in how you deal with questions both small--Should I buy these flowers?--and large--What am I doing with my life? More than a book about making good decisions, Don't Overthink It offers you a framework for making choices you'll be comfortable with, using an appropriate amount of energy, freeing you to focus on all the other stuff that matters in life.
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"Ruminating about decisions and problems can waste all kinds of time. In this upbeat and encouraging book, Anne shows readers how to escape this mental trap and free up space for life's adventures."--Laura Vanderkam, author of Off the Clock and Juliet's School of Possibilities

"Reading Anne Bogel's words feels like having a conversation with your calmest, most reasonable friend--the one who gives you the advice you most need to hear. Get ready to feel happier, less panicked, and more at peace before you even finish the book."--
Mary Laura Philpott, bestselling author of I Miss You When I Blink


We've all been there--stuck in a cycle of what-ifs, plagued by indecision, paralyzed by the fear of getting it wrong. Nobody wants to live like this, but overthinking doesn't feel like something we can
choose to stop doing. It feels like something we're wired to do, something we just can't escape. But is it?

Anne Bogel's answer is
no. You can overcome negative thought patterns that are repetitive, unhealthy, and unhelpful and replace them with positive ones that will bring more peace, joy, and love into your life. In Don't Overthink It, you'll find actionable strategies that can make an immediate and lasting difference in how you deal with questions both small--Should I buy these flowers?--and large--What am I doing with my life? More than a book about good decision-making, Don't Overthink It offers you a framework for making choices you'll be comfortable with, allowing you to use an appropriate amount of energy and freeing you to focus on all the other stuff that matters in life.


Anne Bogel
is the author of Reading People and I'd Rather Be Reading and creator of the blog Modern Mrs Darcy and the podcast What Should I Read Next? Her popular book lists and reading guides have established her as a tastemaker among readers, authors, and publishers. She lives in Louisville, Kentucky. You can also find her on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

About the Author

Anne Bogel is the author of Reading People and I'd Rather Be Reading and creator of the blog Modern Mrs Darcy and the podcasts What Should I Read Next? and One Great Book. Bogel's popular book lists and reading guides have established her as a tastemaker among readers, authors, and publishers. She lives in Louisville, Kentucky. You can also find her on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Baker Books; 1st edition (March 3, 2020)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 224 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0801094461
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0801094460
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 2.31 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.51 x 8.5 inches
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Put aside overthinking and live free
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Put aside overthinking and live free
Not long ago, I learned about a book written on overthinking and it’s perils, a topic I have needed help with. Back in the day when I was working full time and in productive mode 24/7 I was decisive most of the time. My job and life demanded it and my habits allowed for decisiveness.In the past several years as my roles have become more flexible and time more fluid, my tendency has been to overthink most things. I wrestle with decisions that should be easy, I gather more information than necessary, I linger or am paralyzed with choices that are inconsequential.I had inadvertently created a habit of overthinking. In my mind this practice was my new normal. I had been hanging on to overthinking like it was a favorite blanket instead of a practice I can and should leave behind.Enter Anne Bogel. Her style, wisdom, and relatability are as good as gold to me.Her new book Don’t Overthink It shows me (and you) why overthinking is not beneficial and how you can to change. Anne offers us stories with strategies and practices that will give us mental energy and time back. Hallelujah!Some of my favorite ideas from Don’t Overthink It provide strategies for making decisions, asking for help, transforming routines into rituals, and adding daily simple joys.The value of ridding our lives of overthinking is tremendous. Our actions can have a ripple effect, going beyond their impact on just us. Anne rightly reminds us that with each action we take we vote for the kind of people we want to be.Anne Bogel’s book does not disappoint. I invite you to take action by buying your copy of Don’t Overthink It, choose the actions you wish to take from the many suggestions, and keep on your journey to putting overthinking aside and living free.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2020
I received this book through Netgalley because I love Anne's podcast & wanted to support her new book. However, as soon as I started reading, I realized I am definitely an overthinker. Anne's book describes signs of overthinking and gives good suggestions on how to redirect my thoughts when it does happen, and prevent myself from over thinking as often.

Some ideas from the book that are helpful to me:
1. Overthinking "lavishes mental energy on things that don't deserve it...living well depends on thinking well about things that matter."
2. "Complete the cycle"- completely finish your task before moving on or getting distracted. Ex. Wash, dry, fold and put away clothes. Deal with paperwork AND file it away in it's proper place.
3. Don't duplicate work. Her example is making a packing list- write it up once, add as needed, but then you just pull out the list each time you travel, instead of trying to remember what you need. -- Clear that mental clutter.
4. Let your values drive your decisions.
5."Analysis Paralysis" - sometimes it's time to decide- even if you don't have ALL the info, you have enough to make a good choice.
6. Shift to an attitude of abundance and gratitude. Buy The Flowers!- if that little thing will bring you joy. Make the choice once- that you will, & don't waste the energy agonizing over it again.
7. Simplify routine decisions: having a signature dish to make everytime u have guests reduces the stress of deciding what to make.

I don't read many "personal growth" books, but this was a quick read & helpful. Many of Anne's examples were so like dilemmas I have agonized over myself, so her solutions are also practical & simple.
Reviewed in the United States on March 3, 2020
For as long as I can remember, my mom has been telling me that I “think too much.” She’s not wrong. When it comes to mental aerobics, I’m an Olympics-caliber athlete with the ability to twist the simplest problem or idea into more knots than a Cirque du Soleil contortionist.

At times, this proclivity for overthinking has served me well, leading me to act with purpose and intentionality. More often than not, though, overthinking has led to frustration, procrastination, and an inability to remain present because my mind is otherwise occupied.

In the past few years I’ve made great strides in my battle against overthinking, but I still have quite a ways to go. Which is why I was thrilled when I learned that the forthcoming book from Anne Bogel (better known around the internet as Modern Mrs. Darcy) would be addressing this very topic. And as part of the launch team for Don’t Overthink It, I had the opportunity to read an advanced reader copy!

The book’s premise is perfectly summed up in its subtitle: Make Better Decisions, Stop Second Guessing, and Bring More Joy to Your Life. Those are pretty big claims from a small tome, but after reading it, I can say that Don’t Overthink It delivers on its promises.

In the book’s opening chapter, Anne defines overthinking as “those times when we lavish mental energy on things that don’t deserve it. Those times when we can’t seem to think about anything else, even though we know our thoughts are better spent elsewhere.”

Anne herself is no stranger to overthinking, having had her brain space hijacked by everything from travel plans to grocery purchases. And she knows that her readers can sympathize with this pitfall of getting caught in a loop of unproductive—or even destructive—thought. Overthinking can look like worry or fretting about the small stuff or second-guessing ourselves. Regardless of the form it takes, overthinking is repetitive, unhealthy, and unhelpful, depleting our mental energy and rendering us incapable of focusing on the things that actually matter.

Thankfully, we overthinkers are not condemned to a lifetime of mental imprisonment. According to Anne, it is possible to replace negative thought patterns with beneficial ones by following a three-part plan: 1) laying a solid foundation to conquer overthinking; 2) conquering unhealthy thought patterns in the moment and implementing practices that keep us from falling into these patterns in the first place; and 3) learning how to smartly think our way into life’s simple pleasures.

In Don’t Overthink It, Anne digs into the specifics of this plan. She shows readers how to monitor our thinking, identifies potential triggers, and lists ways we can avoid them. As someone who has overthought my tendency to overthink, I was familiar with a lot of these concepts; still, I found it helpful and heartening to know that I am not alone in succumbing to these mental pitfalls. I also appreciated the reminder that I get to CHOOSE what to think about and that I don’t have to remain a victim to my thoughts. Just knowing that overthinking does not need to be a chronic condition was freeing for me.

Many of the tools suggested in this book involve eliminating thinking altogether through steps such as streamlining decisions (e.g., eating or wearing the same thing every day), outsourcing, and getting clear on our values which brings clarity to our decision-making. I’ve already adopted may of these tools in recent years and can attest to their effectiveness.

No matter how much we do to minimize overthinking, it’s bound to happen from time to time. To that end, I found the most helpful part of the book to be the section dedicated to strategies for interrupting overthinking as it happens. I actually made a list of these tips in an Evernote file on my phone, and plan to pull them up next time I find myself mentally spinning. In the weeks since I read this book, my most-used strategy from the list has been “considering a different view” by asking myself “what would I like about this if I liked it? what could I consider to be good here?” These questions quickly snap me out of rumination-mode and redirect my thinking towards solving the problem at hand.

I loved the book’s final few chapters on bringing joy into everyday life. Anne models how we can shift our mindset to expect good things from less-than-good situations. She also offers detailed strategies for using rituals to become more mindful, and gives ideas for learning how to embrace abundance through small, simple splurges—something that can be difficult for veteran overthinkers!

If you have read any of Anne Bogel’s other books, or are familiar with her blog, you will know that her writing is warm and relatable, balancing personal anecdotes with solid principles and actionable ideas. While this book is more repetitive than I would have liked, it’s still a quick, memorable read that I can wholeheartedly recommend. It would also pair wonderfully with Emily P. Freeman’s The Next Right Thing, which looks at the same concepts from a spiritual/soul perspective.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 5, 2020
Don’t Overthink It: Make Easier Decisions, Stop Second-Guessing, and Bring More Joy to Your Life by Anne Bogel is a book for anyone who suffers from the dreaded analysis paralysis. I needed this book. I mean, I overthought how to write this review before I even read the book. After reading it, however, I decided that I need to take Anne’s advice to heart. In the book, Anne draws from her personal experiences with overthinking as well as those of her friends and family, and her warmth and witty personality makes you feel like you are sitting down for coffee with a good friend. She is qualified because she has lived it. I don’t know about you, but that makes it so much easier to take in information that you really need to hear. She tells one story of when her husband was young and had to make a decision on whether to go shopping at Target, which he loved, or wait at home for an opportunity to play with his friends, which he also loved. She talked about how because of his overthinking, whatever he chose to do he would not be happy. Ding! Light bulb moment. I keep going back to this one sentence. It’s an endless cycle, and in this book Anne gives advice on how to break it. Ahhh...sigh of relief. Until Anne made the connection for me, I never really related overthinking to procrastination and exactly how much your internal thoughts affect the rest of your life and relationships. I read this as an Advance Review Copy (ARC) and have highlighted it up. I just sat down to print out my highlights because I can’t wait to annotate my physical copy (yes, I’m one of those people). I have heard myself saying “Don’t Overthink It” a lot lately to my friends and my family but mostly to myself. This is a book I will be coming back to again and again to remind myself to #buytheflowers. I know this book is going to resonate with a lot of people, especially women. Give it a try. I guarantee you will get something out of it.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 22, 2024
Great book. I listened on audiobook and then ended up buying it in print.

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Rebekah
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Reviewed in Canada on March 15, 2024
I read a lot of books. I buy few. I bought this one AFTER and it’s on my reread shelf. I don’t want to spoil it, because I think every overthinker should read it at least once. Great advice inside.
GPBaker2anon
5.0 out of 5 stars A well written read on a topic that applies to so many women, when faced with making decisions.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on March 31, 2020
The author speaks from her own experience of overthinking, second guessing and questioning when making decisions. And this book is a straight forward, insightful and helpful read, and offers some simple but effective strategies for tackling the burden of overthinking.
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Jenny
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Reviewed in Australia on November 10, 2020
IV only read the first chapter but I am liking it so far.
Laura
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Reviewed in Canada on January 21, 2024
I enjoyed reading this book. Lots of examples and tips to help recognize and prevent overthinking.
Victor
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 5, 2021
I hold my hands up. I am one of those people who tend to overthink many decisions I make so when I came across this book I was very interested in seeing what I could learn from it.

I always find myself realising that a lot of the things I read in these types of books are things I generally already knew about, however, the way it is presented always helps to give me a fresh outlook and understanding of what I may have already known about.

I really liked the authors use of real-world examples of situations where we overthink things-wether it was something she experienced herself or the experiences of people she knows-as it gave me a great way of seeing exactly how overthinking in these situations tends to be so unnecessary and ends up wasting so much time and energy which can be used to better effect. I also liked how at the end of each chapter she gets you to look more closely at yourself and use what you’ve read beforehand to see how overthinking affects you but also ways of then making small but meaningful changes to help get yourself out of these situations in the future.

On a final note, I understand that there is a stereotype of women overthinking more than men, but I found that the author at times focused too much on this which especially in the early stages of the book made me feel as though this book wasn’t really intended for me, but once I got over this feeling I very much enjoyed the book and most importantly I gained a lot from it, which is what really matters at the end of the day.
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