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Red-Hot Monogamy: Making Your Marriage Sizzle Paperback – January 1, 2006

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With their trademark insight, humor, and candid personal perspectives, Bill and Pam Farrel reveal the truths about the sexual relationship in marriage and what husbands and wives need to know to keep the embers burning.

  • Sex is like fireworks!—why a little skill turns marriage into red-hot monogamy
  • How sex works best emotionally, physically, and physiologically
  • How to avoid the pleasure thieves that steal your chance for fulfillment

The Farrels present difficult-to-discuss topics and biblical truths in universal language with sensitivity, fun, and understanding.

For newlyweds, golden anniversary celebrants, and all couples in between—this book inspires the gift of romance and passion to fuel lives with love.

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Bill Farrel has been influencing lives for over 25 years as a senior pastor, youth pastor, radio talk show host, community leader, and sought-after conference speaker. Bill is also the author of The 10 Best Decisions a Man Can Make, and he and his wife, Pam, have written more than 30 books, including Men Are Like Waffles— Women Are Like Spaghetti and Red-Hot Monogamy. They have been married more than 30 years and have raised three young men who love Jesus and athletics.



Pam Farrel and her husband, Bill, are the authors of 59 books including Men Are Like Waffles—Women Are Like Spaghetti (more than 350,000 copies sold) and Red-Hot Monogamy. In addition, Pam has written 52 Ways to Wow Your Husband and 7 Simple Skills for Every Woman: Success in Keeping It All Together. They are cofounders and codirectors of Love-Wise, an organization to help people connect love and wisdom and bring practical insights to their personal relationships. The Farrels live in California and enjoy spending time with their 3 sons, 3 daughters-in-law and many energetic grandkids. www.Love-Wise.com

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harvest House Publishers (January 1, 2006)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 224 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0736916083
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0736916080
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.49 x 8.5 inches
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Customers find this book to be a must-read for every marriage, appreciating its practical ideas and easy-to-read writing style. They describe it as honest and funny, with one customer noting it provides lots of ideas for dates.

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57 customers mention "Readability"57 positive0 negative

Customers find the book highly readable, describing it as a must-read for every marriage and a great book to read as a couple.

"...correct verses natural evolution, well, maybe not that bad but the book is fun and informative to all us married people that are fully dedicated to..." Read more

"Great book! Wonderful ideas, funny and real!!! Great find!" Read more

"Great book written from a Christian perspective...." Read more

"Great book! lots of great advice for dealing with root issues and tons of fun, romantic ideas for spicing up your marriage...." Read more

12 customers mention "Ideas"9 positive3 negative

Customers appreciate the ideas in the book, finding them practical, with one customer specifically mentioning useful suggestions for dates.

"...Yes, this is a wonderful read with lots of good ideas that will help relax the tensions and open a few doors into new areas "where love and..." Read more

"Great book! Wonderful ideas, funny and real!!! Great find!" Read more

"...but other tips are too cliche, random and pointless. parts of the book are funny and i enjoyed that...." Read more

"...For my wife and I this was a great book to read together. It gives some good ideas on how each partner can do their part to keep it hot...." Read more

7 customers mention "Writing quality"5 positive2 negative

Customers find the book easy to read and well written.

"...We took turns witht the book, its a fairly easy read with great tips along with Biblical references. Great read for us, it helped our relationship!!" Read more

"...It's an easy read, I feel like it's a friend talking to me and not some psychologist." Read more

"...the language is a bit corny...." Read more

"...He really likes it. I can't wait to read it. I love the authors and have read some of their other books." Read more

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"...but other tips are too cliche, random and pointless. parts of the book are funny and i enjoyed that...." Read more

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I bought about half a dozen of the best rated most popular christian sex books. This being one of them,I expected it to be good but I couldn't get through this one. The suggestions are lame maybe sound exciting for elderly couples though. Overall too graphic, too how to.. (who can't figure that out?) too secular psychology talk, and not biblical enough. I suggest reading Love your husband, love yourself by Jennifer Flanders. She does an excellent job on this one, she talks about why it's important, the benefits, and the blessing that come with having sex with your husband and often! It's an easy read, I feel like it's a friend talking to me and not some psychologist.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 20, 2014
    Talk about politically correct verses natural evolution, well, maybe not that bad but the book is fun and informative to all us married people that are fully dedicated to keep our marriages focused and evolving into the perfect relationship between the spouses.
    Yes, this is a wonderful read with lots of good ideas that will help relax the tensions and open a few doors into new areas "where love and marriage go together like a . . . ".
    Okay, so I give it a read and learn about "romancing the stone" (whichever of you is the stone), loosening up the starched collar and really living the love life you have always talked (well, maybe not) about having. I remember a story that was told about a wife who went to their, the Farrel's, seminar and bought this book to try. One of the authors after talking a while with her, told her to read the first couple of chapters and she would get some ideas on how to work of her deteriorating marriage. She was on her way back East for a work week there and read the first part of the book on the plane. When she got there, she said I have nothing to loose, so she called her husband and made a date to read to him one chapter a night while she was away. When she got home she couldn't believe what she saw ... the yard had flowers planted in it, the bedroom had been painted and pictures hung. When she asked her husband what happened he replied, "I was just getting our castle ready for my queen!"
    Shut up! No, it is really a true story. Read the book and find out why and how it all works. Are you ready for a change?
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 13, 2024
    Great book! Wonderful ideas, funny and real!!! Great find!
  • Reviewed in the United States on November 15, 2017
    Great book written from a Christian perspective. I used it as a study tool when I was asked to minister at a marriage retreat, the topic was “Sex, the Gift of God in a Marriage Covenant “
  • Reviewed in the United States on November 18, 2012
    Great book! lots of great advice for dealing with root issues and tons of fun, romantic ideas for spicing up your marriage. The Ferrils do a good job remembering that lots of us have kids, demanding jobs, and tight budgets, and have thoughts on how to work with and around these complications.
    I read the book while my husband was deployed with the military and highlighted things that I would like to try or that I thought he should know about me. Then I sent it to him with a different color of highlighter and asked him if he might do the same. I think he had it finished in two days :) Now we are looking forward to his return so that we can try out everything that we have learned!
    If you are having more serious issues, a couple of other books we would reccommend are: Intended for Pleasure, by Ed and Gay Wheat, and Sheet Music, by Kevin Leman. If you aren't married yet and want to get your sex life off to a good start, my husband and I reccommend the Getting Ready for Marriage workbook by Jerry D. Hardin and Dianne C. Sloan. It will help eleminate destructive expectations about marriage and your future spouse that will hinder sexual intimacy.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 16, 2012
    After 16 years of marriage you may need a reboot. For my wife and I this was a great book to read together. It gives some good ideas on how each partner can do their part to keep it hot. It does take too for it to work, that's why I say read it together and discus has you go thru the book. If you can go away for a day or two you can read and talk. If not, read a chapter each night take turns reading to each other and enjoy!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 22, 2007
    Read together as a couple, especially if you're not sure how to communicate with each other in this very sensitive, intimate area of your marriage. This book is a great way to get those lines of communication open and help you to make your love life better than it already is. Sex within the context of marriage, the way God planned it, is truly the best and most wonderful gift. This book encourages making time for sex, planning it, even scheduling it. There's nothing wrong with that. It's a great book, very open, and encouraging!!!
    36 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 6, 2009
    I LOVE this book, and my husband does too! I have recommended this book to all of my friends and even bought one for a door prize at our annual Valentine's Fondue Night party. It has motivated me to put my intimate life into the forefront of my marriage. This amazing book gives pratical tips, both elaborate and simple, to spice up your romance life. Whether you have no drive, pain or a great intimate life, this book is for you!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 21, 2014
    i'm not overwhelmed by this book, the other reviews seem inflated. the language is a bit corny. now, i know that this couple is Christian and they probably did not want to use offensive or vulgar language but i didn't want to read unrealistic dialogue either. obviously i bought this book because i wanted to read something spicy- according to the title, i didn't want "fifty shades of grey" vulgarity but i wanted something more real. i admire that they want to help others and that most of the tips are helpful. but other tips are too cliche, random and pointless. parts of the book are funny and i enjoyed that. the truth is that all marriages benefit from some advice and this book gives that. but i guess it wasn't necessarily my cup of tea. i'll lend it out to other ladies i know that could really use help in their marriage, it may come in handy after all.
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  • Del J. H.
    5.0 out of 5 stars Informative in a good way
    Reviewed in Canada on February 23, 2025
    I wish I had this information 55 years ago. Information was not given of offered when it would have helped me understand how to reach and please my wife. We are still together but this info would have made things much better.
  • Richard Obuobi
    5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 3, 2018
    cant stop reading it
  • DHJ
    4.0 out of 5 stars Refreshing
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on March 22, 2014
    This book has helped me on my journey. Bill and Pam discuss sex in a very refreshing and free way.
  • Sherese
    4.0 out of 5 stars So far so good! I have read the first few pages and ...
    Reviewed in Canada on July 4, 2017
    So far so good! I have read the first few pages and have learned a lot already! Anyone married, or looking to be in the future should definitely read this book! It's very insightful and gives great advice to heating things up in your marriage!
  • Charlotte
    2.0 out of 5 stars fizzled out monogamy
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 14, 2013
    I kept thinking this book was going to give up its secrets at each new chapter and I was very disappointed. First of all its very religious and the advice is coached in Christian life, values and ministry with a lot of advice to pray. I wasted my money buying this book!
    It was boring and I bought Pat Love's Hot monogamy afterwards and read that and found it was 100% better.