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Be the Dad She Needs You to Be: The Indelible Imprint a Father Leaves on His Daughter's Life Paperback – June 6, 2017
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From the New York Times best-selling author of Have a New Kid by Friday comes a call to dads to step up to the plate and become the loving, actively engaged father that a daughter needs for life and relational success.
The relationship that matters most to your daughter isn't always the one with her mother—sometimes it's the one with you, Dad. Her self-esteem, choices, behavior, character, and even her ideas about or choice of a marriage partner are all directly tied to you, as the most important representative to her of the male species.
In Be the Dad She Needs You to Be Dr. Kevin Leman—internationally-known psychologist, New York Times best-selling author, and father of four daughters—will show you not only how to get the fathering job done and done well, but also how to:
- Make each daughter feel unique, special, and valued.
- Discipline the right way . . . when it's needed.
- Talk turkey about what guys are really thinking.
- Keep the critical eye at bay.
- Wave the truce flag when females turn your family room into a battleground.
- Set your daughter up for life and relational success.
With some effort on your part, you can gain the kind of lasting relationship you dream of with your daughter—one based on mutual love and respect. The simple yet profound suggestions in this book will transform you into the kind of man your daughter needs . . . for a lifetime.
- Print length272 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherThomas Nelson
- Publication dateJune 6, 2017
- Dimensions5.49 x 0.75 x 8.35 inches
- ISBN-100718097025
- ISBN-13978-0718097028
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Dr. Kevin Leman is an internationally known Christian psychologist, speaker, and New York Times bestselling author of fifty books, including Have a New Kid by Friday, The Birth Order Book, and Making Your Children Mind without Losing Yours. A master communicator, Dr. Leman is a frequent guest on hundreds of radio and TV shows such as The View, Oprah, Today, Fox & Friends, and Focus on the Family. He and his wife, Sande, live in Tucson, Arizona. They are the parents of five children and two grandchildren.
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- Publisher : Thomas Nelson; Reprint edition (June 6, 2017)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 272 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0718097025
- ISBN-13 : 978-0718097028
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 5.49 x 0.75 x 8.35 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #90,090 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #118 in Fatherhood (Books)
- #150 in Parenting Girls
- #475 in Christian Family & Relationships
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Dr. Kevin Leman, an internationally known psychologist, radio and television personality, and speaker, has taught and entertained audiences worldwide with his wit and commonsense psychology. The best-selling and award-winning author has made house calls for hundreds of radio and television programs, including "The View" with Barbara Walters, "The Today Show," "Oprah," CBS's "The Early Show," "Live with Regis Philbin," CNN's "American Morning," and "LIFE Today" with James Robison, and he has served as a contributing family psychologist to "Good Morning America." He is the founder and president of Couples of Promise, an organization designed and committed to helping couples remain happily married. Dr. Leman is also a charter faculty member of iQuestions.com. He has written over 30 best-selling books about marriage and family issues, including "The Birth Order Book" and "Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage." Dr. Leman and his wife, Sande, live in Tucson. They have five children.
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Customers find the book helpful and insightful for dads. They describe it as an easy, straightforward read with a great sense of humor. Readers recommend it for writers of fiction who want to develop strong male characters.
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Customers find the book helpful for dads. They say it provides actionable advice and makes them more understanding of their daughters. The author presents concepts with solid examples and gets to the point quickly. Readers also mention that the book is a must-read for every father at any age.
"...In my opinion, a MUST read for every father at any age. As I learned with my own father; it's never too late to change...." Read more
"...He presents concepts with solid examples, gets to the point quickly, and infuses each section with the kind of warmhearted humor that keeps the..." Read more
"...This is a delicate subject and a discussion about premarital sex is an important one to have, but what Dr. Leman is proposing is not the healthiest..." Read more
"...This book has revitalized me and gave me the inspiration I have been looking for to be that good dad again and reconnect with my kids...." Read more
Customers find the book easy to read and well-received. They appreciate the straightforward, down-to-earth approach to developing strong male characters. The author has a good reputation.
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- Reviewed in the United States on June 16, 2017I read this book before giving it to my son for Father's Day; he now has a 2 yr old daughter. In my opinion, a MUST read for every father at any age. As I learned with my own father; it's never too late to change. But I must add that it also is a MUST read for every daughter, no matter age. I cried as I read through parts that explained why my father acted as he did at times. Dads, you must know the impact you have on your daughter, even if she is old and gray now. A wonderful and needed read for all!!!
5.0 out of 5 starsI read this book before giving it to my son for Father's Day; he now has a 2 yr old daughter. In my opinion, a MUST read for every father at any age. As I learned with my own father; it's never too late to change. But I must add that it also is a MUST read for every daughter, no matter age. I cried as I read through parts that explained why my father acted as he did at times. Dads, you must know the impact you have on your daughter, even if she is old and gray now. A wonderful and needed read for all!!!IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO CHANGE!!
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- Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2020I love both if my girls, now age 7 and 11, more than anything. I have always thought I was doing the best I can. Although I am constantly trying to do better at what I do.
After reading this book, I have realized that we all make mistakes. God expects us to try harder and strive daily to be better than we were yesterday.
Dr. Leman seems to be a down-to-earth dad with a professional career. I'm sure with all of his accomplishments, there were times that he wasnt there at home for various reasons.
For quite some time my job had me working second shift, leaving my wife to rear my two daughters. Dont get me wrong. When I was off work, I was home. I've never been the guys night out kind of guy. Work and home is what I do.
Although in the type of work I'm in, when I was home, it wasnt engaged as I should have been.
I have recently been blessed with a job that I am home in the evenings much more. I am trying to be more engaged with my wife and daughters.
The last chapter if this book struck me, as I have often thought of the same mantra. What legacy am I living.
I have said for many years that I want my kids to know four things and in this order. 1. I love God with all of my being. 2. I love my wife as my soulmate in this life. 3. I love my children just as much but different. 4. I love people as God loves us.
Thank you Dr. Lemon for this book. I was inspired and thoroughly enjoyed it.
- Reviewed in the United States on June 9, 2014Dr. Leman delivers again with a straightforward, down-to-earth, blueprint for understanding and strengthening the bond between a father and daughter(s). He presents concepts with solid examples, gets to the point quickly, and infuses each section with the kind of warmhearted humor that keeps the pages turning.
If you have a daughter, don't miss out - you will walk away from this read with a whole new understanding about the most important relationship you'll ever have.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 19, 2014I agree with most of the positive reviews written here for this book, so I'm not going to repeat what they say. One thing that I did want to mention, which doesn't seem to be mentioned that often in other reviews, is that the author uses religion (Christianity) to explain how you should talk to your daughter(s) about sex. Basically he underscores that it is an act that was meant by God to be performed only by married couples, and all premarital sex is damaging and unacceptable. He recommends that you let your daughter know that once she does get married as a virgin, sex will be something that will keep her husband happy, and she'll probably like it too.
I liked all of the other chapters in this book, but that one was just useless and, ironically, sexist. As a mom who purchased this book for my husband ( who actually loved the book!), I have few better ideas on how my husband and I should talk to our daughter about sex, and in our case, I would like him to leave religion out of it. To me this was a perfect example of how not to talk to your daughter about this subject. I did like the suggestion to keep the conversation open and start it early instead of having one "talk". On the other hand, I don't think that it's a good idea to tell a young girl that sex is dirty before marriage, but a great tool to get what she wants from her husband after she gets married. This is a delicate subject and a discussion about premarital sex is an important one to have, but what Dr. Leman is proposing is not the healthiest and not the most realistic. I didn't know much about the author before purchasing this book, but he claims to be an expert in the field of psychology (which is why I bought the book), not a preacher, so I didn't expect to see religious references in this book. After all this book is titled "Be the Dad She Needs You to Be" not "Be the Best Christian Dad you can be." Other than that, I really liked it.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 9, 2024I bought this book for myself and it has helped me with my relationship with my daughter so much that I have bought copies to give a way to friends with daughters. Highly reccomned.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 6, 2014I'm about 3/4ths of the way through this book, and I have to tell you, this is an absolute must for every father with one or more daughters. Dr. Leman provides a lot of priceless insight into raising your daughter(s), no matter what age they are when you read this book. Mine is an adult now, and I think I've done a pretty good job, but there are still some things to learn from this book. I wish I had bought it years ago. Dads, you need this book.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 13, 2014I've recently gone through a tough custody battle and received custody of my daughter. Before this I was the good dad and had lots of fun with my kids. This book has revitalized me and gave me the inspiration I have been looking for to be that good dad again and reconnect with my kids. I Am going to read this until I've got it memorized and apply to my life.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 4, 2021I’m the dad of a 10 y/o daughter and stumbled across this book. I’m glad I did, I hadn’t thought about some of the lasting impressions the father daughter connection can have in her life. I’ve recommended this book to a the girl dads I know.
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- liezleReviewed in Canada on May 25, 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars Fast and brand new
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- Abdel CAMARAReviewed in the United Kingdom on February 24, 2019
5.0 out of 5 stars Everything about how women think and view the world of men
Great insight and knowledge you wouldn’t think of. I loved it and it worth reading as your daughters are growing up.
- Amazon CustomerReviewed in Australia on August 6, 2016
5.0 out of 5 stars This book touched my heart, mind and soul!
I have learned so much from this book and I look forward to implementing Dr. Kevin Leman's teachings with my only daughter. I will be re-reading this book on a regular basis to keep my skills sharp. My wife has noticed the change in me while reading this book and my relationship with my daughter has improved greatly.
I am grateful that my parents suggested this book and I thank God for Dr. Kevin Leman!
Sincerely,
Matthew - Melbourne, Australia
- AshleyReviewed in the United Kingdom on October 30, 2021
3.0 out of 5 stars Item damaged before being sent
Yet to read it, I'm sure it's great. Shame about the damage, back cover is peeling away. Box wasn't damaged in the slightest so I can only assume it was done before being sent. Obvious enough that it's been packaged and sent knowingly.
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 30, 2021
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- Steven B.Reviewed in Australia on June 8, 2024
2.0 out of 5 stars well-intentioned christian-based pulpit sermon
Well-meaning with some practical suggestions, but so coloured by righteous christian dogma.
Made it difficult to keep reading.
The author falls back on some of the most fundamentalist religious attitudes that just aren't appropriate for those who are not wedded to this simplistic interpretation of faith regarding relationships.
If you can wade through/skip the proselytising there a few good messages.
I appreciate the author's sincere motivation to focus attention on the primary relationship of Dad & Daughter.
I would not have ordered it if it's dogmatic christian slant was evident in the listing.