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The Confidence Game: Why We Fall for It . . . Every Time Paperback – January 10, 2017

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Think you can’t get conned? Think again. The New York Times bestselling author of Mastermind: How to Think Like Sherlock Holmes explains how to spot the con before they spot you.

“[An] excellent study of Con Artists, stories & the human need to believe” –Neil Gaiman, via Twitter


A compelling investigation into the minds, motives, and methods of con artists—and the people who fall for their cons over and over again.

While cheats and swindlers may be a dime a dozen, true conmen—the Bernie Madoffs, the Jim Bakkers, the Lance Armstrongs—are elegant, outsized personalities, artists of persuasion and exploiters of trust. How do they do it? Why are they successful? And what keeps us falling for it, over and over again? These are the questions that journalist and psychologist Maria Konnikova tackles in her mesmerizing new book.
 
From multimillion-dollar Ponzi schemes to small-time frauds, Konnikova pulls together a selection of fascinating stories to demonstrate what all cons share in common, drawing on scientific, dramatic, and psychological perspectives. Insightful and gripping, the book brings readers into the world of the con, examining the relationship between artist and victim. 
The Confidence Game asks not only why we believe con artists, but also examines the very act of believing and how our sense of truth can be manipulated by those around us.
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“Konnikova… is an insightful analyst of the dark art of the scam.”
New York Times Book Review
 
“An unnerving manual for conning and getting conned.”
 
Washington Post

“[An] excellent study of Con Artists, stories & the human need to believe”
 –Neil Gaiman, via Twitter


“Melding pop social science and potted history, the science writer transcends the genre of Gladwell by drilling down into situations where our instincts lead us horribly astray — and right into the arms of swindlers. The surreal and often codependent relationship between grifter and griftee is disturbingly common, no matter how sophisticated its victims think they are, from Bernie Madoff’s worldly dupes to everyone who ever cheered Lance Armstrong.”
Vulture

"A brisk, engaging overview of the ways these skilled tricksters masterfully manipulate us to their own ends."
Boston Globe
 
“Blending news accounts with first-person published narratives, public records, and original interviews, Konnikova dissects the techniques of some of the world’s most successful con artists. A page-turner, this book provides plenty of insight about them and about us, their targets.”
—Psychology Today

"A fascinating look at the psychology behind every hustle, from Bernie Madoff’s Ponzi scheme to a three-card-monte game...Ms Konnikova tells of hucksters masquerading as doctors, royals or moguls, all armed with a gifted imagination, a silver tongue and an ability to size people up."
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-The Economist

 “Victims of cons, she argues, aren't just the foolish and the ignorant. They’re often regular people who happen to be desperate or emotionally compromised by their circumstances.  For leaders, who largely pride themselves on being rational, strategic thinkers, the deception Konnikova’s research warns us about begins with that very emotion: pride….Leaders who get fooled are the ones who first manage to fool themselves.”
--Fast Company
 
“A thrilling psychological detective story investigating how con artists, the supreme masterminds of malevolent reality-manipulation, prey on our propensity for believing what we wish were true and how this illuminates the inner workings of trust and deception in our everyday lives.”
--Maria Popova, Brain Pickings

“With meticulous research and a facility for storytelling, Konnikova makes this intriguing topic absolutely riveting.”
Kirkus, Starred review
 
“Told with vigor and enthusiasm, this study of the psychology of the con artist is riveting and cleverly told.” 
Publishers Weekly, Starred review

“In the Confidence Game, Konnikova plumbs the psychology and chemistry of why we all fall so readily for scams and cons—and why, thanks to the “Lake Wobegon Effect” and other forces, having fallen once, we’re even more susceptible the next time. It’s a startling and disconcerting read that
should make you think twice every time a friend of a friend offers you the opportunity of a lifetime. But you won’t think twice. You’ll still succumb, because that’s how we’re all wired. And here’s the irony—the smarter you think you are, the more readily you’ll fall, which is why New Yorkers are some of the easiest marks. (Clients of Bernie Madoff, we’re talking about you.) If you liked Malcolm Gladwell’s Blink, you’ll love this lucid and revelatory look into our oh-so-susceptible selves.”
—Erik Larson, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Dead Wake and bestselling author of Devil in the White City

“The story of the con artist may be unmatched for combining human interest with insight into human nature, and star psychology writer Maria Konnikova explains their wiles to us with her characteristic clarity, flair, and depth.”
—Steven Pinker, Johnstone Professor of Psychology, Harvard University, and author of How the Mind Works and The Sense of Style.
 
“In this remarkable book, Maria Konnikova shows that human beings are hardwired to believe—often to our peril. And with a deft mix of stories and studies, she explores what that means for how we think and, ultimately, who we are. Deeply researched and elegantly written,
The Confidence Game will widen your eyes and sharpen your mind.”
—Daniel H. Pink, author of Drive and To Sell Is Human

“As an ambassador to AARP’s Fraud Watch Network which educates its members on protecting themselves from confidence games and scams, I found
The Confidence Game an excellent resource. The best way to protect oneself from the confidence man is to understand the mind and motivation of the con man.”
—Frank W. Abagnale, subject of the movie, book, and Broadway musical Catch Me If You Can 
 
“I really love Maria Konnikova’s writing. In a world of pseudoscience—of extreme polemical thought—her calm rationality is comforting and smart. I appreciate and believe her.”
—Jon Ronson, author of So You've Been Publicly Shamed

“Maria Konnikova has written a compelling, engrossing account of the world of the con. I stayed up far too late reading it. Beautifully written, and filled with stories and thought-provoking psychological research, The Confidence Game will teach you how confidence artists operate—and how to outwit them.”
—Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize–winning reporter and author of The Power of Habit
 
“What magic takes place when a smooth-talking stranger convinces you to part with everything you have? Maria Konnikova is a superb storyteller and her tales of conmen and their victims will blow your mind. This is a brilliant and often unsettling book, and it leaves me with mixed feelings—I’d like everyone to read it, but at the same time, it scares me to think of it falling into the wrong hands.” 
—Paul Bloom, Brooks and Suzanne Ragen Professor of Psychology, Yale University, and author of Just Babies. 
 
“An enthralling read about why we’re all vulnerable to deception, by one of the truly gifted social science writers of our time. This book shook my confidence in my ability to detect fraud—and then showed me how to improve my skills.”
—Adam Grant, Wharton professor and New York Times bestselling author of Give and Take and Originals

“Short of making cynicism your overriding philosophy, the surest safety might be to understand the workings of the con man as he understands you. Understand his psychology, his motivation, his tricks, and his games. Konnikova’s book promises to make life just a little bit harder for con artists everywhere.”
—The New Republic

"An unnerving manual for conning and getting conned."
—The Washington Post

“Brilliant and enthralling. By plumbing the depths of real stories of swindlers and their victims, and by drawing on new research into the nature of deception, she does more than just show in riveting detail how these cons unfold; she also reveals their hidden psychological dimensions, and why we all may be perfect mark.”
—David Grann, author ofThe Lost City of Z

"In The Confidence Game, Maria Konnikova has created an enthralling read about con men. But it's about so much more: trust, belief, and deception at their most basic and human levels. If you think you're above becoming an unwitting player in the confidence game, you'll think again by the end."
—David Epstein, author of The Sports Gene
 
“The most thoughtful and thought-provoking book ever written on cons, and I’ve not only read most of them but I’ve also been conned. Marvelous and important.”
—Michael Shermer, publisher of Skeptic magazine, author of Why People Believe Weird Things and The Believing Brain

“Blending news accounts with first-person published narratives, public records, and original interviews, Konnikova dissects the techniques of some of the world’s most successful con artists. A page-turner, this book provides plenty of insight about them and about us, their targets.”
—Psychology Today

“A gripping examination of exactly why so many of us are such suckers for schemes that shut down our saner instincts.”—Vice
 
"One of the best science writers of our time examines the minds, motives, and methods of con artists—and the people who fall for their cons."
Forbes
 
“Konnikova covers wide-ranging studies in social psychology and illustrates them with colorful stories about real-life con men and women in action.”
New York Magazine
 
“A deep (and entertaining) dive into the world of con artists.”
Time.com
 
“It turns out there's a lot to be learned about human nature. And Konnikova…is an insightful analyst.”
Economic Times

“An engaging read . . . A subtle yet powerful reminder that the con man isn’t solely a shadowy grifter but as ubiquitous and common as the little white lies we tell our friends and family.”
Los Angeles Review of Books

“Melding pop social science and potted history, science writer Maria Konnikova transcends the Gladwell genre by drilling down into situations where our instincts lead us horribly astray—and into the arms of swindlers.”
New York Magazine


About the Author

Maria Konnikova is the author of Mastermind and The Confidence Game. She is a regular contributing writer for The New Yorker, and has written for the Atlantic, the New York Times, Slate, the New Republic, the Paris Review, the Wall Street Journal, Salon, the Boston Globe,  the Scientific American MIND, WIRED, and Smithsonian. Maria graduated  from Harvard University and received her Ph.D. in Psychology from Columbia University.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Penguin Books; Reprint edition (January 10, 2017)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 352 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0143109871
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0143109877
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 2.31 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 0.9 x 5.4 x 8.4 inches
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Maria Konnikova is the author, most recently, of The Biggest Bluff, a New York Times bestseller, one of the Times’ 100 Notable Books of 2020, and a finalist for the Telegraph Best Sports Writing Awards for 2021. Her previous books are the bestsellers The Confidence Game, winner of the 2016 Robert P. Balles Prize in Critical Thinking, and Mastermind: How to Think Like Sherlock Holmes, an Anthony and Agatha Award finalist. Maria is a regularly contributing writer for The New Yorker whose writing has won numerous awards, including the 2019 Excellence in Science Journalism Award from the Society of Personality and Social Psychology. While researching The Biggest Bluff, Maria became an international poker champion and the winner of over $300,000 in tournament earnings—and inadvertently turned into a professional poker player. Maria’s writing has been featured in Best American Science and Nature Writing and has been translated into over twenty languages. Maria also hosts the podcast The Grift from Panoply Media, a show that explores con artists and the lives they ruin. Her podcasting work earned her a National Magazine Award nomination in 2019. She graduated from Harvard University and received her PhD in psychology from Columbia University.

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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 11, 2016
    The Confidence Game reads like a detective novel of the human character. Maria Konnikova weaves a masterful tale of intrigue into the various ways how some have been extraordinarily successful at deceiving their fellow human beings at a large scale and how many are quite successful on a small scale pretty much anywhere you go - through their story. I like to say that I am "addicted" to facts and have very rarely been conned. Konnikova suggests that the successful con artist rarely if ever lets her/his mark get to the point where the mark finds out.

    She builds her case slowly and deliberately. In fact, I found it reading like walking an ever widening spiral - the reader gets back to a similar point as before (which to some might make it seem repetitive), except that Konnikova then introduces another aspect to the case in question. The most fascinating part of reading The Confidence Game for me was that the writing style and the way that the material was presented loosened up my rigid emotional mindset towards my family which mindset had prevented me from viewing my relatives for what they (mostly) really are - a bunch of con artists with very convincing stories. This is the result of one specific comment that Konnikova makes in a passage where she discusses the psychological aspects of the confidence game. There are more of these precious insights that add special value to the book and that extend its reach beyond merely a discussion of the con game itself.

    To explain what I mean by the personal discovery mentioned above, my fact based defense mechanism against con artists didn't prevent me from being conned by people whom I falsely believed I could trust - my own family (mother, brother etc) who constantly reassured me that they love me, care about me and stand by me in times of trouble. That they actually did very little yet professed profusely how much they cared instead had always been obvious to me, yet their abundance of words always seemed to make up for the lack of action. The Confidence Game allowed me to see, for the first time ever, and not until almost the end of the book (that's how deliberate the con artist's game is, one really needs to know the whole truth), how my family was able to pull the wool over my eyes since birth basically. Indoctrination of others for some people can apparently not start too early. In other words, I thought I had protected myself against con artists by insisting on facts, but where I refused to insist on facts was with people I mistakenly believed I could trust because of a natural bond.

    I read only non-fiction material, academic and non-academic. I don't recall ever having read non-fiction without footnotes. In that sense, Konnikova has pulled off a commendable job. I found it very liberating not to be bombarded with reference material. The few cases that I looked up for further information were valid and supportive. Also, I didn't feel that I had to question her perspective. In fact, I feel encouraged to apply what I have learned from The Confidence Game to any past, present and future situation in my life and to reconsider everything and anything as the need arises without necessarily blaming anyone, least of all myself.

    Stories can be short and long. Konnikova shows that anybody with bad intentions is capable of coming up with a story and how important it is to ignore them. That is not to say that facts cannot be deceiving, yet anyone presenting them might have a good story to tell why you should believe their facts over other facts. The Confidence Game easily gets my five stars yet deserves many more for the impact it has had on my perspective on human behavior.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 4, 2016
    I'm reading and loving this book. I'll expand my review when I'm completely done in a couple days but just have to say: get it. Read it. Learn about yourself; if you dare. (I gave it four stars rather than five to protect myself!)

    I was shocked how well she documents that it is we the conned that want the con to be real. The Grifter doesn't even have to always be that skilled. I went back and saw ways I got conned in matters of the heart while dating; in buying things; in following certain leaders in church.

    Stunned to learned that 1% of the population is psychopathological in the way their brains are wired, some folks just can't feel or give meaning to your pain or the pain of others. And some are not even bad people. She says it's when folks who lack this "proper" wiring aim to use it for financial gain or to win and break hearts? Awful. I fell in love with a Man Eater once. Looking back I see how it was my fault in setting up my own fall. I want things to look like they would work. The bad rests on me now. She's still a Man Eater. But the wounds I earned with my stupidity. I went on to find success with love but I've some scars for sure due to female cons running scams unwittingly online with dating sights.

    She shows we can be wise without being cynical. I like that.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 13, 2024
    Very well written. Very good story examples followed by very good explanations of the psychology involved in those examples. Superb.
  • Reviewed in the United States on January 21, 2017
    We’re treated to examples of and the rationale behind real life “cons” in such chapters titled The Put-Up, The Play and The Rope. There is also a chapter at the book’s end highlighting the (real) oldest profession. Hint: It’s not prostitution.
    The common denominator in all these cons is the incredible gullibility of the “mark” or the person who is conned. But what about the con man (it’s almost always a man) who commits these white collar crimes? The true con man doesn’t force us to do anything; he makes us an accomplice in our undoing.
    For me, the first chapter was most illuminating. The author presents the findings of psychologist Robert Hare who has done considerable work analyzing personal characteristics of con men. These features can be grouped in three categories: psychopathy, narcissism, and Machiavellianism. Under the first, the con man exhibits no remorse for his actions, shows pathological lying, is manipulative, is promiscuous, and displays superficial charm. Under narcissism, he has an exalted sense of entitlement, self-enhancement and an overly inflated sense of self-worth. He’s the center of the universe. Finally, Richard Calhoon, a marketing professor at the University of North Carolina, goes further and describes the Machiavellian as someone who employs aggressive, manipulative, exploiting, and devious moves to achieve personal and organizational objectives. It’s no stretch that all the above traits can be ascribed to the man who recently settled a lawsuit for twenty-five million dollars rather than risk impeachment and removal from office.
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    2.0 out of 5 stars Mucho rollo
    Reviewed in Mexico on September 9, 2018
    Entrega rápida pero el libro es como leer una enciclopedia.
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  • Charles
    5.0 out of 5 stars There's a sucker born every minute?
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 30, 2016
    This is a book about cons, here is a rundown of each chapter's contents along with what I think are the most important parts.

    CHAPTER 1: THE GRIFTER AND THE MARK
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    This chapter introduces the grifter( conner) and mark(victim), are some people born grifters, it is nature or/and nurture that creates them? Contrary to what you might think there is no such thing as a typical mark, different people fall for different scams and emotional turmoil can make people more susceptible to scams in general.

    CHAPTER 2: THE PUT-UP
    ======================
    This chapter covers how the grifter finds the mark and discovers their weaknesses. Familiarity and trust are used to seduce the mark. Fake fortune tellers are used to illustrate these points.

    CHAPTER 3: THE PLAY
    ======================
    This chapter is how powerful emotions can override people's logic and reason, when delivered through a compelling narrative it makes for potent stuff. Different emotions effect people in different ways effecting how they can be duped.

    CHAPTER 4 :THE ROPE
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    The rope is the persuasion used by the grifter, some examples are claiming to be an authority figure(because people respect and obey authority figures), asking for a small amount then once the mark says yes asking for a large amount ( works better than just asking for a large amount because giving a small amount puts the person in a giving mood), or the opposite asking for a huge amount that is rejected then asking for a smaller amount ( works better than just asking for the smaller amount because the mark feels guilty for turning down the large amount). The that's-not-all where the grifter keeps bolting claim on to claim making the purchase sound better and better, this approach gets better sales than just hearing the offer right away. Or the grifter can just try overwhelming the mark with too much information rendering them unable to make sensible decisions.

    CHAPTER FIVE: 5 THE TALE
    =======================
    The average person thinks their above average and can spot a scam, other people might fall for those kind of things but not them, this is their lucky break, they deserve this great opportunity because they are special. Unfortunately this kind of thinking makes people easier to scam, and most tragically of all when the scam is over the "I am too clever to fall for scams" belief makes it harder for people to admit to themselves they have been scammed.

    CHAPTER SIX: 6 THE CONVINCER
    ==========================
    People have a unrealistic bias towards a happy future so if things are going well now they believe it will continue in the future, the Ponzi scheme is a classic example of a scam that works well until it eventually fails, "well it appears to be working" would be valid justification only in the short term. Also people don't want to jump ship on something doing well, the thought of losing out on something they could have had is not nice.

    CHAPTER SEVEN: 7 THE BREAKDOWN
    ===================================
    When the mark starts losing out, they have a dilemma, do they drop out or keep going? The mark can often double down thinking they can endure the current problems actually deepening their commitment, having to admit they are been scammed can be painful and conflict with their current beliefs (cognitive dissonance).

    CHAPTER 8: THE SEND AND THE TOUCH
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    The send is where the mark is recommitted, that is asked to invest increasing greater time and resources into the con artist's scheme and in the touch, the con finally comes to fruition and the mark is completely irrevocably fleeced. The sunk cost fallacy means that people stick with things because they have already invested in it and do not want to lose what has been invested already. Once we have invested heavily it comes hard to be objective and warning signs are ignored. The things we have gain the "endowment effect" becoming all the better just because we own it.

    CHAPTER 9: THE BLOW-OFF AND THE FIX
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    The blow off is how the con ends and the fix is dealing with the angry mark, The mark may not realise they been duped so then no fix is needed and even if the mark does realise they have been had they might decided to do nothing for fear of social embarrassment of having been conned.

    CHAPTER 10: THE (REAL) OLDEST PROFESSION
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    This chapter focus on religious cons, specifically cults as the ultimate example of the con.
    "Nobody joins a cult, Sullivan repeated often and emphatically. People join something that will give them meaning. “They join a group that’s going to promote peace and freedom throughout the world or that’s going to save animals, or they’re going to help orphans or something. But nobody joins a cult.” Nobody embraces false beliefs: we embrace something we think is as true as it gets. Nobody sets out to be conned: we set out to become, in some way, better than we were before.

    Con artists, at their best and worst, give us meaning. We fall for them because it would make our lives better if the reality they proposed were indeed true. They give us a sense of purpose, of value, of direction.
    That, in the end, is the true power of belief. It gives us hope. If we are endlessly skeptical, endlessly miserly with our trust, endlessly unwilling to accept the possibilities of the world, we despair. To live a good life we must, almost by definition, be open to belief, of one form or another. And that is why the confidence game is both the oldest there is and the last one that will still be standing when all other professions have faded away.

    Ultimately, what a confidence artist sells is hope. Hope that you’ll be happier, healthier, richer, loved, accepted, better looking, younger, smarter, a deeper, more fulfilled human being— hope that the you that will emerge on the other side will be somehow superior to the you that came in."

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    This book is a very interesting read not just for the information about cons but about the nature of belief. I could nit pick some parts and religious people may find the book offensive but I thoroughly recommend it.
  • Lawrence Bohme
    1.0 out of 5 stars Smug and boring!
    Reviewed in Spain on February 5, 2016
    I suppose if you're not very smart to begin with, being talked down like this by someone who has all the credentials to be "in the know" is a small annoyance compared to the wisdom being graciously imparted. But I found the 20 or 30 pages I managed to wade through - here and there in the text - uninteresting and unenlightening. I had read in the NYT about it - the author just happens to be on their staff - and was intrigued by the story of a smart young woman who met a smart young man with whom she felt she had everything in common but gradually smelled a rat, all of his stories of professional and social success were without backing, and when she scraped the surface his job and degrees turned out not to exist. Since he didn't take her money or get any material benefit out of the hoax I wanted to know just what it was he wanted, but the book told me no more than the review. I am interested in the idea of conning someone to get love and affection, which exists too, but this book left me, like the girl, in the lurch - conned, in fact.
  • Stefano
    5.0 out of 5 stars Incredible work
    Reviewed in Italy on April 22, 2022
    It is really a remarkable work on the psychology of the con: a necessary read for anyone who doesn't want to end up a sucker in one of these games, but also very instructive read all around. And all the well researched stories of conmen make it even more entertaining!
  • 宗宏
    4.0 out of 5 stars 取り込み詐欺やカルトに迫る
    Reviewed in Japan on August 30, 2016
    所謂詐欺師、取り込み詐欺、そしてカルトまで、信じ騙されるプロセスを心理学的に分析する。 オレオレ詐欺は、この分析から考えても良く考えられているものだ。 

    信じる事が、人間の社会生活には重要な要素で、人類が此処まで発達した基本的な資質の一つであるが、それを悪用する人々が居るのも人類だ。 学校などでも、社会生活への準備として、このような内容を簡単に纏めた授業をしても良いだろうと思う。