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When Someone You Love Is Bipolar: Help and Support for You and Your Partner 1st Edition

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When bipolar disorder afflicts the person you love, you suffer too. How have other couples learned to manage the relationship strains caused by this illness? What can you do to provide your partner with truly helpful nurturance and support? No one cares more deeply about these questions than Dr. Cynthia Last, a highly regarded therapist/researcher who also has bipolar disorder. Sharing stories and solutions from her own experience and the couples she has treated, Dr. Last offers heartfelt, practical guidance for getting through the out-of-control highs and the devastating lows--together. Learn how you can help your spouse come to terms with a bipolar diagnosis, get the most out of treatment, and reduce or prevent future mood episodes, while also taking care of yourself.

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    April 16, 2009
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"Few books deal with the challenges that bipolar disorder poses for couples. Anyone whose spouse or partner has the illness should read this easy-to-digest guide. Dr. Last helps the spouse understand what the sufferer is going through and how both partners can get their needs met. Couples will find much useful information for coping with the disorder, improving communication, strengthening their relationships, and taking care of each other on both a practical and an emotional level."--David J. Miklowitz, PhD, UCLA Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior, David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA

 

"This book is peppered with brilliant and intimate accounts of the personal journeys of  Dr. Last, her patients, and their loving families. It is a fabulous resource for anyone who is riding the roller coaster with a spouse or partner who has bipolar disorder."--Mani Pavuluri, MD, PhD, author of What Works for Bipolar Kids



"With a lot of love and hard work, the two of us have been able to achieve a stable and wonderful life. My wife has written this book for you and your partner, so that you can benefit from everything the two of us have learned during the course of our relationship about living, as a couple, with bipolar disorder."--from the Foreword by the author's husband, Barry M. Rubin

 


"This book is a 'must read' for loved ones of bipolar sufferers. Dr. Last's candid sharing of her own personal struggles, and her therapeutic insight and recommendations, will resonate deeply with readers."--Mary A. Fristad, PhD, ABPP, coauthor of Raising a Moody Child

"Fact filled and loaded with advice." ― Library Journal Published On: 2009-06-01

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Cynthia G. Last, PhD, is a clinical psychologist in private practice in Boca Raton, Florida. She has served on the faculties of the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine and Nova Southeastern University, and is internationally known for her research on the diagnosis and treatment of psychological disorders. The author or editor of 13 books, Dr. Last has been widely quoted and interviewed in the media. She lives with her husband of more than 20 years, Barry M. Rubin.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ The Guilford Press; 1st edition (April 16, 2009)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 306 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1593856083
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1593856083
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.06 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 1 x 9 inches
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5.0 out of 5 stars Exactly what I needed
Reviewed in the United States on May 2, 2023
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This book literally saved my mental health and my marriage! I have been married to someone with bipolar disorder for 13 years now. Everything I read taught me about bipolar disorder but didn’t give me things I could actually do to help my husband-or myself- get through it. Finally I have what I’ve been looking for. Clear, practical strategies I can use not only to help him but me too. I can’t thank the author enough!
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5.0 out of 5 stars She easily explains how this illness manifests itself in many different ...
Reviewed in the United States on July 13, 2016
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Dating someone recently diagnosed with Bipolar has been a challenge. I came across Dr. Last's book and was instantly drawn to all of the similarities I have experienced with my boyfriend over the last several years. She easily explains how this illness manifests itself in many different types of situations yet gives you hope that there are treatments out there to help. Unfortunately there is no cure for the disease as of yet.

Reading this book has helped me to understand my boyfriend better and has made it easier for me to talk with him about his condition. I let him know I was reading the book and that the author was Bipolar herself, and he opened up more to me and thanked me for trying to educate myself and for trying to be more understanding. I reached out via e-mail to Dr. Last and she responded back to me in kind. We are now looking into setting up a consultation with her directly. My boyfriend is looking forward to speaking with someone who will understand the feelings, emotions, and episodes he has experienced and not just talk to someone about changing medications, which has been a very frustrating experience.

All in all, I thank Dr. Last for her book and I will continue to educate myself as best I can. Best of luck to everyone who is going through the same experience.
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NicA
4.0 out of 5 stars Good book
Reviewed in the United States on December 10, 2012
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I bought this book in paperback for my boyfriend, and then got the Kindle version for myself because I decided I wanted to be prepared for any questions that he may have from reading it. I have discovered a lot about my symptoms that I didn't know before, and I suspect this book has ended up being more useful to me than to my boyfriend.

I found the writing had a dated feel to it, but the subject matter was worth plodding through. Certainly not my personal preference for delivery, as I prefer more humor and light-heartedness in things, but I would imagine it's absolutely fine for others.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Fast delivery
Reviewed in the United States on March 31, 2022
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I read this 3 years ago but wanted a copy to own. This is a very helpful resource.
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Paraskevi
5.0 out of 5 stars AMAZING BOOK
Reviewed in the United States on October 12, 2015
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An excellent book. Anyone who is in this situation (being involved with someone who has bipolar disorder) this book is a must or even for someone who isn't, The information provided can help you see the options you have and how to deal with each situation and that you are not alone in this. More important don't forget that all relationships are difficult and have their challenges but if it is a person you love and see a future with, it is well worth it. Helped a lot and I would definitely recommend to anyone interested in finding out about bipolar disorder.
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patricia neal
5.0 out of 5 stars When someone you love is Bipolar
Reviewed in the United States on May 3, 2012
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When I read this book I was about to give up on my relationship. Although I knew early on that my partner is bipolar,there was a lot of information that I did not know about. After reading this book it gave me the strategies to continue the relationship and get support for myself. I loved the book so much that I emailed the authour "Dr. Cythnthia G. Last".She took the time to contact me by phone. Her compassion for my partner and I was amazing and she was willing to help me in anyway she could. I would recommend this book to anyone who lives with someone who is bipolar.
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Vince Hardy
5.0 out of 5 stars The book has really helped me better understand the struggle she has gone through and how ...
Reviewed in the United States on December 18, 2016
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My wife has suffered with Bipolar for over 25 years. To say it has been struggle would be a understatement. Add in the death of a son and that just pushed things to another level. The book has really helped me better understand the struggle she has gone through and how it has effected me. At this time our marriage is in crisis. This book is the best thing I have read. Thank you very much.
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Jenny Eggers
3.0 out of 5 stars Well written
Reviewed in the United States on February 21, 2014
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There were some knew things in this book I hadn't found before in other books. My husband found it helpful and it kept his interest. He hasn't stuck with any other books before so I appreciated that.
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Pawed Piper
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read
Reviewed in Canada on February 16, 2018
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This is a must read....I also bought Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder by Julie A Fast...BOTH books are equally good---I think both should be purchased together. Anyone who is a friend or family member of anyone who is bpd or the caregiver should read it so that they understand what they are going through and can support them too...As a family member trying to support someone with Bipolar, its been extremely helpful for me to understand both sides ---what the bpd person experiences and also such a support for someone like me.
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Mike
5.0 out of 5 stars Ein hervorragendes Buch, wenn man der englischen Sprache mächtig ist. :)
Reviewed in Germany on May 11, 2015
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Da ich lange nach einem Buch gesucht habe, das mir hilft Bipolar besser zu verstehen und meiner liebsten zu helfen um sie zu verstehen.
Es ist Simpel geschrieben mit den Erfahrungen der Autorin wie von ihrem Mann. Sie selbst hat Bipolar und hat lange gekämpft um ihre Ehe wie Sozialesleben zu meistern mit Bipolar. Das Buch richtet sich besonders für dennen die nicht Bipolar haben aber mit jemanden Leben die darunter leidet.) Dabei hebt sie auch ein paar posetive aspekte von Bipolar wie zum Beispiel: Kreativität.
Bist du jemand der mit jemandem Lebt, Sie oder Er die darunter Leiden und du selbst leidest darunter dann kann ich dieses Buch empfehlen.
Die Autorin kann man kontaktieren und sie beantwortet gerne fragen um einem zu helfen.
Ich kann das Buch nur empfehlen.
Ps: Rechtschreibfehler dürft ihr behalten ;)
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Olly Parry-Jones
5.0 out of 5 stars Highly Insightful
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 12, 2013
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There's only so much you can learn about someone else's suffering from a page on Wikipedia! No matter how much you love someone who suffers from bipolar disorder, there are times when it can feel like your love isn't enough. There's only so much that someone can say or show; they may be unwilling to reveal more.

This book provides you advice and suggestions for caring for that person you love - whether they're a partner, relative or just a close friend. Using working examples from her own background as a psychiatrist, Dr.Last (who also suffers from the condition) provides ways in which you can communicate and get through to your partner in both the highest and lowest of moods. Together and, with an understanding, you can learn to spot the early warning signs of a mood episode before it escalates.

Perhaps the most important chapter of all is the final one on looking after yourself.

Loving someone with a mood disorder is never going to be easy. This book offers help and, with its guidance, you can find hope. If you've never suffered from any form of depression yourself then, you may well appreciate reading about how a condition like this can drastically affect the human mind and its perceptions. Likewise, with episodes of mania.

If I'm being picky, the book is printed in 'American English'. I also prefer to think as though someone 'HAS' bipolar disorder, as opposed to being defined by their condition. It offers insight and practical guidance, rather than a diary of past events. You don't have to read each chapter in order and can return to any one of them at a later date.
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James Helen
5.0 out of 5 stars lifesaver
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 7, 2022
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This book has been a lifesaver for me. My husband has bipolar and there are times when I have struggled to understand why he acts like he does but this gave me the answers. I often read it over and over each time he has episodes and it helps me through those tough times. Thank you so much to the author who has put her heart and soul into writing this amazing book!
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Judy Nova Scotia
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read not only for me but my family members and co-workers.
Reviewed in Canada on August 23, 2015
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Written from experience, what a difference. She writes in easy to understand language and "bipolar" language. Very easy to understand and
my husband really "got it".
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