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The Thing You Think You Cannot Do: Thirty Truths about Fear and Courage Hardcover – April 10, 2012

4.4 4.4 out of 5 stars 127 ratings

What are we afraid of and what can we do about it?Fear--of change, of intimacy, of loss, of the unknown--has become a corrosive influence in modern life, eroding our ability to think clearly. Exploited for power by politicians and for money by the media, it has become embedded in the way we think about our lives. Overcoming our fear, says Gordon Livingston, constitutes the most difficult struggle we face.

Dr. Livingston, a psychiatrist, has increasingly found himself prescribing virtues like courage to his patients instead of tranquilizers or antidepressants. Now he tells us all what we need to do to develop personal virtues in the face of societal fear-and our own individual fears. And he does this with the crystalline prose and leavening wit that have made him an internationally bestselling author.

As the celebrated novelist Mark Helprin has said of Dr. Livingston: "To read him is to trust him and to learn, for his life has been touched by fire, and his motives are absolutely pure."





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"Thoughtful and thought-provoking...The book will stir your emotions and cause you to think about the things you can do but do not do."
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About the Author

Gordon Livingston, MD, a graduate of West Point who was awarded the Bronze Star for valor in Vietnam, is a psychiatrist and writer who contributes frequently to the Washington Post, San Francisco Chronicle, and Baltimore Sun. He lives and works in Columbia, Maryland.  

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Da Capo Lifelong Books (April 10, 2012)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 224 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 073821552X
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0738215525
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 9.6 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.75 x 7.75 inches
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Reviewed in the United States on July 18, 2012
If you tend to view the world in absolutes and bring a hard-right wing agenda to your thinking, you need to read this book but probably won't like what it has to say. It is not a political book per se but certainly challenges the ethics of our leaders and the use of fear to subvert our individual and collective thinking. Dr. Livingston is an excellent writer, thinker and I am most grateful for all his writing. It has brought me comfort and clarity at the worst moments of my life.
This book touches on our national and individual anxieties and fears. How we are affected by it, the antidote and he rightly points out that there is only the thinnest of lines between how we behave as a collective society and personally. Perhaps that is why much of the book focuses of what fear has wrought in America (for example the highest percentage of people incarcerated in prisons in the world). Read this book or any book by Gordon Livingston and you will be better for it.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 16, 2012
I have not finished this book yet. While it is not heavy reading, one needs to stop and ruminate once in a while. Some of his life views are different from mine in this book, and I need to hold my life up for scrutiny. I am enjoying the friendly challenges, and may update this review when I am done
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Reviewed in the United States on December 8, 2014
Many of the same things as in his other books. Still a good short read.
Reviewed in the United States on May 6, 2012
Dr. Livingston is that most rare human being: one who understands his own shortcomings, his own faults, his own demons, and in wrestling with these demons he gives great instruction to the reader. He is transparent about his disappointments, frank and candid about his anger, and resolute about what it takes to overcome the crippling effects of the past and face the future with greater confidence. As is the case in his other books, the chapter headings bear little relationship to the contents: they are a jumping-off place for his meditations, and I suggest that you not use them in any but the most superficial way to index his thoughts. Read every section, and mark up what you read: this book cries out to be dog-eared, high-lighted and margin-noted.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 15, 2013
I'm a great fan of Dr. Livingston's books. I read them repeatedly and give them as gifts to my children and friends. This latest one is different. I have trouble sorting through his message and he seems to be grinding a political axe with arguments that are as easily applied to liberals as to the conservative that he targets. Having said that, get a copy and see for yourself. Maybe you'll think it's great.
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Reviewed in the United States on August 26, 2012
An outstanding read for those who are seeking insight into the very basic and sometimes complex nature of our human condition. With years of practice and experince to support his text the author does an outstanding job of providing an argument, with humour, for why we are who we are and how we might influence a change.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 17, 2012
I have read all of Dr. Livingston's books and this one is just as excellent as the others. There are some thought provoking insights about our culture and how we've come to accept and even glorify narcissism. My favorite chapter was, "You Have Never Suffered Enough." Dr. Livingston makes the point that there is no limit to human suffering.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 3, 2014
Dr. Gordon's books are EXCELLENT!!! I bought a copy for my dad and one for myself. Knowing how great it was, I gave my copy to my cousin as I knew she would benefit greatly from it. Now I need to get another copy for myself!
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Joseph
5.0 out of 5 stars Recommdbded
Reviewed in Australia on October 20, 2019
Very good book and thoroughly enjoyed it very good and easy to read and intuitive would recommend to others thanks
Roch Pouliot
5.0 out of 5 stars Reflections
Reviewed in Canada on September 17, 2016
Fine, That brings reflections
Christian of Sweden
5.0 out of 5 stars Life goes on. No matter what.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on March 13, 2016
Mr Livingston is a rare voice in todays choir of self-help experts. Rare because he is humble and, to my view, truthful. No quick fixes. No promises of great futures, but crisp clear analysis of the conditions of our lives. I have read many of his previous books and this is as good as his breakthrough book "Too soon old..." Is it worth five stars? Well I would have put 4,5 it was possible and the half is deducted because of to many repetitions about Americas saddening wars. Yes. We got that part from the beginning. Otherwise throw yourself in and discover brave men and women that carry on living in spite of "everything".
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3.0 out of 5 stars Thirty true pieces of common sense.
Reviewed in Australia on March 11, 2019
Another great book by Dr Livingstone. While his first book remains the best, books like this are a helpful reminder of things we should know.
ed steel
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on March 21, 2016
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